These are the resources that I like

LJ Users:
77words
colorfilter
wash_when_dirty
reversescollide
gender
ewanism
iiokua
unmasked_icons
11amgraphics
resourcerequest
my_givenchy
Fangirls_inc
loveicon
rhythmique
_iconographer
blimey_icons
toybirds
lookslikeicons
distractiions
soaked
discolore
lovelamp
yunhe

Websites
Discardia
The Magic Box
Design Fruit
Ex-posed
Maquina
The Glinted Brush Blog
Colordrop
Rain Harbour
Sanami276
loveicon
99mockingbirds

Layouts
mintyapple
thefulcrum
mintypeach
passing_girl
refuted