The pitfalls of how to make human relationships work well [Change jobs and change the environment]

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "the pitfalls of how to make human relationships work well", but I'll ask you suddenly, how many ways to improve human relationships do you know?

Well, do you know?

Then next, do you know this fact?

In fact, all of them have "disadvantages!" What do you mean?

How about it?

You didn't know much about this, did you?

But isn't it surprising?

"I'll improve human relationships!" I'm saying that, but "There are also disadvantages!" Oh, it looks like a scam, doesn't it?

If you believe it as it is and do it carelessly, you will fail, right?

If you think so, it's the right answer.

So if you do it, if you don't pay attention to the disadvantages, you will really fail, so don't underestimate it.

Don't overlook the disadvantages, too.

Moreover, it is a pitfall, so it is very difficult to notice and the disadvantages are approaching everyone.

Then, "It's better not to do it!" It will be, really.

It can't be helped if you say it too persistently, so in this series, I'll talk about things to be careful of in advance so that it doesn't happen.

So, today's story, if "That's good!" If so, please share it with your friends.

So the way to make today's human relationships go well is to "change jobs and change the environment".

How about this method?

Do you think it can be used?

That's right, it will be quite usable.

Moreover, it has an immediate effect.

But that's right, right?

Since you're changing jobs, it means you're not there anymore, right?

I'm going to say goodbye to where I was at that time.

We will build relationships in a new place from 1 and from 1.

I give up my relationship with the people I've been with and remake it again in a new place.

As for the method, it's the fastest.

But what do you think?

If you already have a good intuition, haven't you noticed the disadvantages of this method?

That's right.

It means that even if you go to the next community, the same situation will be created.

By the way, there are many other disadvantages, such as the time it takes time to find the next place, it takes time to build relationships from 1, and the habit of running away, but there is only one disadvantage I want to tell you today. It is.

The point is that it doesn't change no matter where you go.

That's right, there are similar people wherever you go, this is it.

Don't you have any experience with this?

"Even if the face and shape are different, there were people of the same type at the previous workplace." Oh my god.

That's exactly right.

When people look at each other, they have different personalities and different lives, so it is said that each person has ten people and ten colors, but if you divide it roughly, there are not that many types.

In terms of academics, there are only 9 types of people.

In other words, even if Japan has a population of 120 million, there are only 9 types by type.

There are only 9 types, so wherever you go, there is a high probability that you will meet the type of person you were not good at in your previous job.

Since 120 million people are divided into 9 types, it is calculated that there are 13 million people in 1 type.

If there are 13 million people, don't you think you'll see them wherever you go?

Even if you walk around the city, it seems to be there, right?

On the contrary, those who don't meet are blessed.

It's a miracle.

So, in the end, wherever you go, you will meet the same type of person, so if you don't notice it, you will change jobs again and again.

Every time, I blame the other person.

I'll say harsh things, but that kind of person.

What? That's also your fault, isn't it? Even if you say it to your friends, some people don't notice it at all, so "I'm different!" Please pay attention to that point without thinking about it.

So how was it?

Today's story.

By the time you realize it, you may already be addicted to the pitfalls, so please be very careful.

Well, was it possible to help everyone even a little bit today?

If I can help you even a little, it would be great.

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