Advice for people with perfect constitution.

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Today, I have a piece of advice for people with perfect constitution.

Speaking of which, it sounds kind of cheeky, but in fact, it's going to be the right story, so can you listen to me a little bit until the end?

Because this is also a Japanese temperament, so it can't be helped, but we Japanese are basically serious, right?

Serious and accurate.

You try to do what you are seriously ordered to do faithfully, don't you?

It's out at this point.

Well, this is a side story, but Japanese school education made it do that.

It's obvious now, isn't it?

The current education style is so obvious that there is no doubt at all, right?

No matter where you go in Japan, it's almost the same.

Everyone enters the school at the same age, and 20 or 30 people are placed in one class, and everyone learns the same educational curriculum.

When I know the answer, I raise my hand and make him answer.

If the answer is different, "No." And point out a good mistake.

I praise you for the answer.

In other words, even if there are differences in personality and values, it is a system where those who give the correct answer are evaluated.

The class begins with the order, and the class ends with the closing ceremony.

Moving is basically a group action with everyone.

If you disturb discipline, you will be angry.

Doesn't this look like something?

That's right.

It's an army.

Moreover, it is close to training to raise honor students who are quite good at listening.

But what's strange is, who is the honor student?

That's what it means.

Now, who is it?

That's an honor student for teachers.

The point is that it's like training to raise students who listen to what they say.

Well, that's how serious people, accurate people, and people who answer correctly are made useful, and 9 years of compulsory education.

If you put it forward more, it's a few years in kindergartens and nurseries.

The humanity that can be created in these years from childhood creates a very strong self.

Because it's an age when there are too many things you don't know, right?

At that time, you usually receive and absorb various information from people close to you, and you form your own personality, right?

Know that good things are good, and know that bad things are bad.

Moreover, it is taught repeatedly by people who have similar values, so it is easy to assume that it is correct.

In addition, whether you go to school or go home, even if you go to cram school or sports, what is generally said is the same, and the correct answer is the right answer, and the mistake is a mistake.

If you ignore the rules, you will be treated as a heretic.

In other words, is it a developmental disability or a learning disability?

That's why I don't have time to doubt.

In this way, a system has been created that is easy for people with a serious constitution or a perfect constitution to be mass-produced, but with that perfect constitution, isn't it possible to lose money?

Isn't there something strange?

If you are serious and perfect, you will be useful in the world, right?

It has a considerable advantage, doesn't it?

But in fact, if you try that way, isn't there a lot of hard things?

Or rather, don't a lot of unreasonable things happen?

"I've been taking on your job seriously, but why do you blame me so much if I fail a little?" Or something?

"However, I sometimes fail, and it's not just my fault!" That's it.

This reaction is still within the normal range, but there are people who don't doubt it at all.

Some people believe that it's all their fault.

"The last PK, I lost because I removed it..." or "If I decide over there..." And so on.

This is often a sports manga, isn't it?

I didn't take it off on a way, but I don't blame myself more than necessary, right?

Actually.

It's true that I might have won if I had scored a goal at the end, but if I replaced it with business, I might not have caused a lot of damage to the company due to my mistake, but if you look at the details, it's me. There are many things that are not mistakes.

There were some people who were involved until then, right?

You can't do business or sports alone, right?

This is the same for individual businesses and individual sports.

I'm not alone fighting.

In the end, it is certain that you need to make a move to get results, for those who play individually.

But by the time you make that move, there must be more than one person involved.

People from partner companies who cooperated with my business, friends, colleagues, coaches, directors, support managers, parents, etc.

Only with the support of various people can I play.

But you forget about it.

Well, in this way, people say, "It's selfish." I think so, but it's okay to worry a little, but it's completely "100 to 0, it's my fault!" If you think so, this is a big mistake.

You don't have to be so insumed, do you?

Rather, it's gratitude, isn't it?

If you don't thank me, won't you get a bee?

Because many people helped me to play my best.

I apologize for temporarily because I couldn't meet that expectation.

This is an ant.

But I have to express my gratitude right away.

You can't think of it, can you?

Don't you feel sorry for the people who have been helping you until then?

"Don't carry it alone!" What a cool line, have you ever heard it?

Even if you fail, you can start again from 1.

For the time being, as long as you choose the conditions, it will work to start again and again.

Is that okay?

It is a trap that people with perfect constitution fall into.

Don't carry it alone.

Don't believe that you are all bad.

Don't aim for perfectionism.

Please don't forget that perfectionism was "like brainwashing, so to speak, to create a convenient person".

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