The pitfalls of how to make human relationships go well [Use positive words]

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "the pitfalls of how to make human relationships go well", but I'll ask you suddenly.

How many ways to improve human relationships do you know?

"Even if you ask me suddenly?" Is it like that?

Or, "Fine, I know!" Is that the way?

Then, do you know this fact?

In fact, all of them are, "There are disadvantages!" What do you mean?

What do you think?

You didn't know much about this, did you?

That's right.

I'm convinced by myself, but isn't it surprising?

"I'll improve human relationships!" Even though I'm saying that, "There are also disadvantages!" What, it looks like a scam, doesn't it?

If you believe it as it is and do it carelessly, it means that you will fail, right?

If you think so, it's the right answer.

So, if you're going to do it, if you don't pay attention to the disadvantages, you'll really fail, so you have to be extra careful.

Of course, you can't overlook it, and there are also disadvantages.

Moreover, it's a pitfall, so it's very difficult to notice, and the disadvantages are bad for everyone.

"In that case, I shouldn't have done it!" It will be, really.

It can't be helped even if you say it too persistently, so in this series, I will talk about things to be careful about in advance to prevent that from happening.

So, today's story, if "That's good!" If so, please share it with your friends.

So the way to make today's human relationships go well is to "use positive words".

Now, what did you think first when you heard this method?

I'm sure many people will say, "Oh! That's good! Or, "There is. Yes. Or, "This is not a fault!" Wasn't there more reaction?

If you think so, it's the right answer.

That's right.

If you use positive words, your relationships will improve.

That's right, you may not need to explain anymore, but this is ultimately a method that doesn't make others feel uncomfortable.

Well, even if you don't go until you feel uncomfortable, you won't make your mind negative.

Because that's right?

On the contrary, try to use negative words to converse.

quotemarkWhat is that! It's lame! Or, "This is different, do it again!" Or, "I don't understand that boss at all!" And so on.

Well, for the time being, my colleagues will sympathize with me, but I want you to stop at least once or twice, right?

An honest place.

"That's enough, I heard that..." And so on, those who are asked are also negative.

Moreover, if you say more than that, it will escalate, and this will completely enter the realm of bad words and slander.

If that happens, the negative power will run wild, and the negative aura will turn black all over.

If that happens, it will be quite uncomfortable, won't it?

Since you only listen to other people's bad words, you feel like you're going crazy, and if you listen to other people's bad words, you get depressed and annoyed, right?

Therefore, it is better to say something positive than to say something negative, and to create a very positive space that wraps up the atmosphere of the moment.

Right?

It's obvious which one you want to choose, right?

Well, it's a way to use positive words, but this also has disadvantages.

Some of you may have already noticed, but that is, "the awareness of crisis is declining." That's what it means.

Is it okay?

Earlier, I created a negative space, so "No negative words!" I talked about it, but this time it's a disadvantage when creating a positive space.

This is also the easiest to understand if you can imagine it, but it's positive no matter where you look.

Well, in terms of probability, such a situation is 100% impossible, but isn't it sometimes?

It's time to move forward with tremendous momentum.

In particular, it feels like comrades get together and hit it off, and move forward more and more.

No one can stop, "Stop! Stop! Do you feel like creating an atmosphere that doesn't make you say the word?

Is it a demonstration march, an election rally, or a sports festival at a school event?

At this time, everyone is heading in the same direction, so everyone says "Wait!" There are almost no people who put that on, right?

If you do that, everyone will boo you a lot.

But this moment is actually the most dangerous.

Because even if you get motivated and rush, there's no way everything will go well, right?

Sometimes you hit a thick wall and get angry even if you fail, right?

In the case of organizational management, there are times when the funds are about to run out.

That's why it's quite dangerous for everyone to rush into the dark clouds.

So, what creates that atmosphere is a positive space, and it is a positive word.

Positive words basically make sense to affirm what the other person said without denying it.

In other words, if you don't notice this and only affirm it, you may not be able to deny it before you know it, or your sense of crisis will decline, so please be careful. Yes.

So how was it?

Today's story.

By the time you realize it, you are already addicted to pitfalls, so please be very careful.

Well, was it possible to help you even a little today?

If I could help you even a little, that would be great.

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