If you borrow someone's help, you will misunderstand.

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "misunderstanding if you borrow someone's help", which is also related to yesterday's blog.

But before that, please.

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If you do that, I think there will be one person who can be saved.

So that's the main topic.

Yesterday, I talked about "trying it without the help of others", do you remember?

If you have forgotten, please look back for a moment.

People are creatures that forget almost 70% of what they input a day ago the next day.

So today is about "misunderstanding that you borrow help from others".

Yesterday, as a result of trying to do it without borrowing other people's hands, "Let's borrow people's hands sometimes!" I think it was a story, but this time it's the other way around.

It's a disadvantage or a reaction due to borrowing too much.

Everything is the same, but if you do too much, a reaction will occur.

It's also called "shake back".

For example, if you move your body too much, you will feel tired, if you stay up all night, you will fall asleep immediately, or if you eat too many sweets, you will feel sick.

Various reactions almost always happen.

If you only knew this, it would be very useful.

Well, such a story has nothing to do with it today, so I'll put it aside, but today it's "mistaking for borrowing someone's hand".

What would you think of if you were all?

If you borrow other people's hands too much, you will be mistaken.

For example, if you owe too much, will you have to thank you later?

Is it like that you're going to strangle yourself because you've gained too much thanks?

Or are you being treated as incompetent after all?

It may be thought that people are rough.

Well, there are such things, but what I'm most worried about is that I'll mistakenly think I can do it.

The point is that you are "overly confident".

Overfaith is scary.

Don't underestimate it.

Because it makes you feel good.

Moreover, without knowing it.

This applies to anything, but it's dangerous.

In the end, there is a risk of destroying yourself.

It's easy to break human relationships.

With this over-trust.

So be careful how to use overconfidence, but in the first place, overconfidence means being too confident, right?

That's fine.

It's a very good thing to have confidence.

Originally.

But sometimes, I turn the blade at myself.

The point is that you are too confident in your own power, right?

That's why I'm scared.

You're thinking that you can do it with your own strength, and you have the illusion.

As time goes by, it's unnecessary.

The memory of having someone help me slips out.

Isn't it troublesome?

Unexpectedly, people's memories are sloppy.

Moreover, I have a habit of being cut off and remaining in a convenient way for me.

The inconvenient parts are cut out.

"No, I helped you too!" What, have you ever been put in a tsukkomi?

"At that time, I was there too" or something.

This means that the memories that are inconvenient for you have been removed, and only the good points are left and rewritten.

Because that's more comfortable, isn't it?

That's why my memory is tampered with to protect myself.

Well, thanks to this, a sense of self-affirmation, a sense of self-efficacy, "I can do it!" It's not all bad, because it's a way to cultivate the power of belief.

However, I don't want you to forget that it's easy to misunderstand.

That the memory is vague.

Otherwise, I repeat, I will be "over-trusted".

Over-trust is a great enemy.

If you are over-trusted, you will be kicked under your feet and your relationships will be destroyed.

I'll say Kudoi.

As I said earlier, we should have done it together and won credit, but when it seems like we did it alone, we will get antipathy and become very bad.

Please be careful.

You will be resentful.

So how was it?

Today's story.

For the past two days, I have been telling you about stories related to "borrowing people's hands", but these two are very important parts in community formation, so I think it's better to remember them as a set.

So, don't forget.

Well, once again, did today's story help you all even a little?

If I could help you even a little, that would be fortunate...

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