The pitfalls of how to make human relationships go well [Conveying gratitude]

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "the pitfalls of how to make human relationships go well", but I'll ask you suddenly.

How many ways to improve human relationships do you know?

Do you know a long time?

Then, do you know this fact?

In fact, all of them are, "There are disadvantages!" What do you mean?

What do you think?

You didn't know much about this, did you?

That's right.

I'm convinced by myself, but isn't it surprising?

"I'll improve human relationships!" Even though I'm saying that, "There are also disadvantages!" What, it looks like a scam, doesn't it?

If you believe it as it is and do it carelessly, you will fail, right?

If you think so, it's the right answer.

So, if you're going to do it, if you don't pay attention to the disadvantages, you'll really fail, so you have to be careful.

You can't overlook it, including disadvantages.

Moreover, it's a pitfall, so it's very difficult to notice, and the disadvantages are bad for everyone.

"Then why don't you do it!" It will be, really.

It can't be helped even if you say it too persistently, so in this series, I will talk about things to be careful about in advance to prevent that from happening.

So, today's story, if "That's good!" If so, please share it with your friends.

So once again, the way to make today's human relationships go well is to "convey gratitude".

Speaking of gratitude, the No. of good deeds. Isn't it a word that comes up to 1?

As long as you are grateful, your sense of happiness will explode, and some people say that good things will come soon, right?

It's like a cycle of gratitude.

Therefore, gratitude itself is not a bad thing, it is rather a good thing, and it is better to do it than not to do it.

Normally, both those who did it and those who did it somehow feel heartbroken.

Do you think it feels like the air in the place is calm?

"Hove it." There is also a saying, isn't there?

Without saying anything, for example, it's much better than being ugly.

So, conveying gratitude itself has a very good effect, but if you don't know the disadvantages that I'm going to tell you from now on, you'll be grateful for everything, and in the end, you There is also a pattern that becomes a frame to look at an idiot.

Well, first of all, I will introduce the disadvantages, but that is, "you won't notice even if you are deceived".

This is not good, is it?

There are also normal criminal cases.

Moreover, it's pretty bad to be deceived.

If it's intense, you'll distrust people.

Of course, it's fine if it's a surprise with love, but if it's a way of deception that doesn't hurt everyone and no one is sad, it's still good, but there's a way to deceive full of malice, right?

It's like being a fraud, lying all the time and trapping others.

However, if you only express your gratitude, even if you are deceived, you will feel grateful to the other person.

Your brain is buggy.

If you only thank you, your brain will become a grateful brain on its own, and a brain circuit that dares to find gratitude is created.

In other words, you won't feel bad about the other person.

It's true that there are quite a few opportunities to learn a lot from mistakes, but the fact that the other person did something bad is another matter, right?

Deceiving, harming the interests of others, and connecting them to your own interests, this is something you shouldn't normally do, right?

Even kindergarten students learn it, right?

It's a good thing to be deceived and learn new things from it.

But that's why, "Since I gave you a lesson, it's okay to have something to gain, right?" That's different.

If you don't sue if there is a real harm, there is a high possibility that it can happen again or twice.

There is a possibility that you will be a good duck and your life will be ruined, so please be careful.

So how was it?

Today's story.

At the end, I was a little rough, but by the time I realized it, I was already addicted to a trap, so please be very careful.

Well, was it possible to help you even a little today?

If I could help you even a little, that would be great.

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