The pitfalls of how to make human relationships work well [Active communication]

Hello everyone.

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Well, the new series I started the other day, have you read it yet?

That is "the pitfalls of how to make human relationships work well".

Isn't this theme shocking?

Because it's a way to improve human relationships, but on the contrary, it may ruin it, right?

Well, there are many ways to improve human relationships, but if you do too much, all of them will say, "There are pitfalls!" That's the story, unfortunately.

Because, as I said in the previous series, everything has a "front and a back".

So it can't be helped, but it's generally said that "how to make human relationships go well", there is also a pitfall behind it.

So if we don't focus not only on the advantages on the surface, but also on the disadvantages on the back, and on the hidden disadvantages, this time again, "Eh, that couldn't be!" Or, "I did it properly, why!" Or, "I did my best, but I really can cry..." or something like that.

So from the other day, I wanted to talk about the pitfalls of how to make human relationships work well, so I'm going to write it down until the story continues.

Please stay with me until the end.

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Well, let's start with the way to make today's human relationships go well, but today it's "active communication".

This method is very good, isn't it?

Because it's a way to set it up actively from here, and because of that, the results are easy and fast.

Moreover, it's the so-called positive attack method.

Communication is a very important position in building human relationships.

First of all, if you don't come into contact with others, you won't be recognized, so even if you just stay there, you can be without it.

As long as the other person doesn't talk to you, you have to talk to him.

That's why the method of communicating as a way to be recognized is quite effective.

Moreover, since you "take it actively", it means that your cognitive power will also be boosted.

Is it okay so far?

I don't think it's that difficult, but there are also disadvantages to this "active communication", which is considered perfect.

That means that if you keep doing it, you will be "depressed".

But try to imagine.

You're going to be aggressive, aren't you?

Always.

From the other party.

Isn't it troublesome?

Moreover, in most cases, you only think about your own convenience.

Even if you give up a hundred steps and like people, even if you actively communicate with people who are not good at it, people who don't like it, people who are troublesome, and people who said this, you will pull it a little, right?

Or rather, it's counterproductive because you don't like it, right?

No matter how much you do this, instead of improving human relationships, it will get worse and space away.

So, it depends on a person's personality, but a sense of distance is important.

Also, the timing of setting it up.

Moreover, if you go too far for your own convenience, there will be things that can be avoided without knowing it, so please be careful.

Unexpectedly, this is the part that has become a pitfall because it is difficult for the person involved to notice.

Actively communicate, and that's "quite effective!" Even so, please note that if you take it in a way that the other party does not like, it will be completely counterproductive.

So how was it?

Today's story.

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