The pitfalls of how to make human relationships go well [Acting on your own]

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "the pitfalls of how to make human relationships go well", but I'll ask you suddenly.

How many ways to improve human relationships do you know?

Do you know a long time?

Then, do you know this fact?

In fact, all of them are, "There are disadvantages!" What do you mean?

What do you think?

You didn't know much about this, did you?

That's right.

I'm convinced by myself, but isn't it surprising?

"I'll improve human relationships!" Even though I'm saying that, "There are also disadvantages!" What, it looks like a scam, doesn't it?

If you believe it as it is and do it carelessly, you will fail, right?

If you think so, it's the right answer.

So, if you're going to do it, if you don't pay attention to the disadvantages, you'll really fail, so you have to be careful.

You can't overlook it, including disadvantages.

Moreover, it's a pitfall, so it's very difficult to notice and the disadvantages will sneak up on everyone.

"In that case, I shouldn't have done it!" It will be, really.

It can't be helped even if you say it too persistently, so in this series, I will talk about things to be careful about in advance to prevent that from happening.

So, today's story, if "That's good!" If so, please share it with your friends.

Therefore, the way to make today's human relationships go well is to "act on your own".

That's good.

It's the best thing to act on your own.

Because it means that you are aggressive, right?

Moreover, having autonomy means that you have the initiative, right?

This side.

Because I'm moving from myself.

If you move from the other party and we react to that movement, this is because we are moved by the other party's movement, so the initiative is the other party, but this means that you are being moved by the other party. It's a diagram.

If you continue with this, you will only be able to move passively, and you will be easily controlled by the other person, so please be careful.

Your own words and actions will be triggered by the other person's words and actions, so if you are not good at it, you will be attracted to brainwashing, hints, and so you will become a different person without knowing it.

Even if this falls to the good side, it doesn't make any sense at all if it falls to the bad side.

Well, if you say that there is a way to act on your own and make human relationships go well, it's a good way.

For example, there are many specific methods, such as always being kind to get along, helping immediately when you are in trouble, greeting, talking to them, and praising yourself, but there is only one thing that is crucial.

Without this, it's quite difficult, and that's "the feeling of not being afraid of things".

The point is, is it social?

It's quite risky to take action on your own.

It's good if you get hooked on the other person, but if you don't get hooked, the relationship will fade at once.

If you have a low ability to understand the other person's feelings, you can't see the time to pull, so if the other person doesn't like it but you get pushed away, it's just a push of sociality.

If you push through, the probability of success will be quite low.

Then, ask the other person how he is doing and say, "It seems impossible." Or, "You don't like it." Or, "Don't avoid it." If you feel like that, it is sometimes necessary to step back and wait for a good opportunity.

That's why you need the ability to perceive the other person.

However, if the ability is low, I repeat, the opponent will be trapped in his own shell, and the result will be the exact opposite.

In other words, it ends that human relationships don't go well.

So, as with everything, be careful not to overdo it.

Otherwise, the sense of distance from the other party will only open up without knowing it, so please be careful.

Please try this method on top of that.

So how was it?

Today's story.

By the time you realize it, you are already addicted to pitfalls, so please be very careful.

Well, was it possible to help you even a little today?

If I could help you even a little, that would be great.

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