The pitfalls of how to make human relationships go well [Avoid unreasonable relationships]

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "the pitfalls of how to make human relationships go well", but I'll ask you suddenly.

How many ways to improve human relationships do you know?

Do you know a long time?

Then, do you know this fact?

In fact, all of them are, "There are disadvantages!" What do you mean?

What do you think?

You didn't know much about this, did you?

That's right.

I'm convinced by myself, but isn't it surprising?

"I'll improve human relationships!" Even though I'm saying that, "There are also disadvantages!" What, it looks like a scam, doesn't it?

If you believe it as it is and do it carelessly, you will fail, right?

If you think so, it's the right answer.

So, if you're going to do it, if you don't pay attention to the disadvantages, you'll really fail, so you have to be careful.

You can't overlook it, including disadvantages.

Moreover, it's a pitfall, so it's very difficult to notice, and the disadvantages are bad for everyone.

"Then it would be better not to do it!" It will be, really.

It can't be helped even if you say it too persistently, so in this series, I will talk about things to be careful about in advance to prevent that from happening.

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So the way to make today's human relationships go well is to "avoid unreasonable relationships".

Well, everyone.

First of all, frankly, what kind of impression did you get when you heard this method?

As a way to make human relationships go well, it means avoiding unreasonable relationships, but to put it bluntly, "That's right!" Don't you feel that?

You fail because you are trying to improve the relationship even if you force it, and if you don't force it, it won't lead to failure, right?

That's why it's a very reasonable method.

However, if you keep avoiding unreasonable relationships, "What will happen?" I want you to think about it.

That is the disadvantage that everyone should be careful of this time.

Now, what do you think?

Have you imagined various disadvantages?

This is more advantageous for people with rich imagination.

Moreover, many of those people are also good at detecting crises.

Isn't it rare to make too big mistakes?

Well, the story tended to derail, so I'll force myself to correct it, how about it?

"What happens if you keep avoiding unreasonable relationships?" It is.

That is, "I avoid even those who need it".

For example, aren't there people who are important to you?

A person who interferes with his subsequent life, or a person who holds the company's luck.

I get into the habit of avoiding even people who need me because I'm not good at them.

"Well, it's the type of person I'm not good at this time, so let's avoid it." And so on.

You go out of your way to avoid approaching, even if your life, the company's company's luck, etc. are at the rank.

If that happens, you will lose sight of the opportunity and let it go, so even if you fail anyway, don't you think it's okay to try that chance once?

But if you keep avoiding unreasonable relationships, you will lose that opportunity.

It's a waste, isn't it?

Well, if a person of the type that I said I was not good at until now, when I tried to date him, he said, "Unexpectedly, it was okay." And, "I did my best to overcome it!" It's quite a story, and all of that experience is connected to your confidence, isn't it?

But on the contrary, if you keep avoiding people you're not good at, your heart won't be hurt, but on the contrary, you don't have a sense of accomplishment that you can get if you work too hard, right?

Well, which one is the best choice for you is up to you, so it's not up to others to decide, but why don't you try one or two big challenges once in your life?

So how was it?

Today's story.

By the time you realize it, you are already addicted to pitfalls, so please be very careful.

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