A person who tries to get the other person's permission for everything.

I'm translating into English, so I think the nuances will change. So the English version is free.

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Hello everyone.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "people who try to get their permission for everything".

But before that, please.

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So it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Aren't you around?

That is a person who tries to get the other person's permission for everything.

This is quite everywhere.

That's why "It's also around everyone." That's what it means.

So please look around for a moment.

Because there is, it's almost 100%.

What do you think?

Right?

There was, right?

That is, this is also one of the human natures, and there is such a thing as "one nature", right?

Everyone has their own nature, doesn't they?

Would it be easier to understand by saying personality?

For example, this time, if you don't get permission from others, you can't move on your own, or you can't decide on your own?

It's such a nature and personality, but "only that person!" has this nature. What, what do you believe, people?

It's easy to look at it with a very narrow perspective, but what's moreover, people quickly forget what they've experienced once unless it's a dramatic experience that makes the impact run.

That's why I forgot about those people of the same nature that I should have met in the past, and from 1, "Nice to meet you." I deal with it in such a way.

Even though I've met similar people in the past.

But at the moment we met, the face and shape were different, so it would be like the first time we met, so even if I saw something I was not good at, I could only think, "I don't like this person...".

But we've met in the past.

I just forgot.

And please think about it carefully.

I feel like "I don't like it..." It's an experience that I wouldn't have thought of if I had never experienced it somewhere.

Originally.

Because, I want you to think back a little bit, but you can't think of something you've never seen at all, you've never met, you've never experienced anything, right?

Because it's really my first time, so I can't have an impression, right?

I don't know how it moves, I don't know how it reacts, what does it taste like?

What does it smell like?

I don't know what they're going to say, and it's the first time at all, isn't it?

Does it hurt?

Is it cold?

Will you get hurt?

Is it fun?

Because we don't have preliminary knowledge, when it comes to what we see for the first time, our brains naturally start looking for something similar to it from its shape and characteristics, and compare it with it, and is it dangerous?

Is it safe?

Is it okay to touch it?

Is it okay to be close to you?

Should I stay away?

What, I'm judging a lot.

For example, isn't it the first time you've seen a flying plane?

quotemarkWhat is that? Isn't it like that?

If you look at it without any prior knowledge.

Then how about it?

That big object is just flying.

It's the first time I've seen it, so I don't know if it's heavy or hard.

I can't see whether there are people on it or not because it's far away.

You don't even know how it flies or the principle, do you?

"Apparently, it's not coming here." "It doesn't even attack." "It doesn't seem to be harmful." "Only a strange sound can be heard late." "But it's straight, just straight ahead in the sky." It's like that, isn't it?

Right?

quotemarkI hate it. Also "I like it." You don't feel anything, do you?

But this is it, let's say you've been on a plane in the past and had a scary experience, right?

How about that?

Even if you look at the same plane, it's just flying normally, right?

That plane.

But just looking at that plane makes you feel disgusted, right?

This doesn't have to be a plane, of course.

It's the same with cars, and it's the same with foods that have been eaten in the past.

It seems that I saw a scary person.

The principle is the same as this.

If you hit a person with the same nature that you have caused a meal in the past, this will bring back memories of that time and cause the same food again.

At first, we said to each other, "Nice to meet you." I don't know because it's right, but from there, I somehow explored and said, "What kind of person is this person?" What, you're going to treat me, right?

But gradually, you will be able to speak normally, and eventually you will show your true feelings, right?

That's when I feel a personality that doesn't suit me, I feel disgusted.

That abominable memory that I must have experienced in the past.

I will be awakened.

If I say that, it's a little closer to a threat, so I don't say much.

But it will be about a mild diet, right?

"I don't want to see you if possible." For people like that.

Well, even if you forget about people's memories, please know today that you remember them at the cellular level.

Well, it's the nature of a person who doesn't know whether it's good or bad, but the person I'm going to introduce today was "a person who tries to get permission from the other person for anything", right?

To be honest, is there anyone who is not good at it?

This nature.

I used to be a person who was not good at it, but this is troublesome, isn't it?

quotemarkWhat? Think about it yourself! Don't you think so?

For example, "Please feel free to use it." There are scissors next to the sticker that says something.

But I went out of my way, "Can I use this?" What are you asking me?

"No, no, no, that's why I'm writing it!" I think so.

"If not, first of all, I won't put the scissors there, and I won't write a poster." What do you think?

Moreover, people of that kind of nature, other than that, ask the same thing.

Please imagine it for a moment.

Isn't it troublesome?

If we were together.

You'll ask me every time, right?

"No, wait a minute!" And "Don't ask me every time!" And "Think for yourself!" And it will be, right?

Think of this normally.

Moreover, the more time we spend together, the more troublesome it becomes.

Please be honest.

There is, right?

That's why, the bitter end of such a person is generally depressing.

Being depressed is a sign that you will be hated.

Please be careful.

If you are hated, you tend to be alone, and if you spend more time alone, you won't know how to deal with others, so you really can't underestimate them.

So please be careful from now on so that the "depression" that will be the entrance does not become such an existence.

If you have an idea, now is the time to fix it.

Those who don't care at all, "Isn't it possible that you?" Please check it out.

If there are people like this around you, please gently teach them so as not to hurt them.

Don't just fight.

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Today's story.

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