What happens if you are bombarded with dirty words?

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Today, "What happens to people when they are showered with dirty words?" I will talk about it, what do you all think?

Or rather, dirty words, do you usually bathe in?

Even if you say that, "Huh? What do you mean? Is it like that?

"What do you mean by dirty words?" That.

Or is there anyone who immediately came to mind?

First of all, about dirty words, is there anything you can think of?

For example, don't you often hear it on the street?

Words that make you want to cover your ears.

It's a curse-like word.

Words that stick to my heart.

Stupid, stupid, stupid, is it still sweet around here?

It's annoying, go away, it's disgusting, do you want to die?

Well, there are many ways to say it, and it's up to each person to find which one goes deep into the heart, but do you know what will happen if you keep saying that?

Or rather, it seems easy to imagine, how about everyone?

There are still a certain number of people who can't imagine this, but they realize it as soon as they are told.

Unexpectedly, it's easy.

I'm deeply hurt, angry, and disturbed by those words.

Speaking of which, you already know.

That's right.

It's a word that deeply hurts the heart.

There are several ways to express it, such as being sad, frustrated, annoyed, or angry, but none of them are very good emotions.

It has the effect of directing the mind to the negative side.

In the first place, we all continue to grow under the influence of something, right?

It's impossible to grow anything on your own, right?

It's basic.

For example, deciding what job to take in the future due to the influence of parents, the knowledge acquired in the school curriculum changes, and values change depending on the country of birth.

The influence of books, videos, and media is also greatly involved, isn't it?

What did you say at that time?

What did you hear?

What kind of words came to your heart?

These words stay in my head, and I naturally say those words.

It's a buzzword that's easy to understand.

Also, didn't you tell everyone the complaints you paid attention to on TV and SNS the day before at school the next day?

The words that the talent said, the words that the politician said, the words that the influencer said.

Everyone imitates, doesn't it?

If you do that, the words you say will accumulate in your mind formation.

If you keep saying negative words, your mentality will be negative, and if you keep saying positive words, you will become positive, and that's how it is.

People.

It's easy to be affected immediately.

There is also a tuning effect.

I feel resistance to doing things that are different from others, and my defensive instinct works.

What will happen if you do that?

I will take the same action as everyone else.

You don't like it, do you?

Everyone is bowing, but one person stands upright and motionless.

Everyone turns right, but only one person turns left, it's quite courageous, right?

This is the so-called sonization effect and sonization behavior.

Because of the fear that if you do something different from others, you may be excluded, the defensive instinct to protect yourself works, and you have to act the same as everyone else.

Instinctively.

Well, that kind of story is also interesting, but today it's about being showered with dirty words, so I'll reluctantly get back to the main topic, but what happens if people who are easily influenced by other people's words continue to be showered with dirty words?

You already understand, don't you?

This, almost certainly, will grow a dirty heart.

A dirty heart is a pessimistic heart, a heart that believes that you are a bad guy, and a heart that hurts others.

Moreover, what happens if you have such a mentality?

The aura you put on your body is a jerk, isn't it?

It makes you feel an unhappy constitution, or creates an atmosphere that you don't want to get close to, or you become a person who tends to attack others.

If you want to be a person like this, I won't stop, but I don't really recommend it.

In the end, if you wear such a constitution, not only yourself, but also those around you will do so, and what's worse is that you will let your child inherit the same constitution.

There is also such an impact.

Isn't it scary?

But, isn't that right?

Small children are most affected by the parents who raised them at that time.

Moreover, there are various theories about this, but it seems that the child's mind is formed and fixed by about 3 to 7 years old.

That's why it's quite important to raise it when you're young.

The story is also important, so I can't ignore it too much, but if I increase the number of things I want to talk about, I can't see the end, so I'll forcefully end today's story here.

Well, what I wanted to tell you the most today, did you get it right?

I'll just check it at the end.

It means that if you continue to be showered with dirty words, your heart will also become dirty.

I think it's better to refrain from saying dirty words easily because you will become a person who hurts yourself and hurts others.

Especially those who have the role of "raising people".

Please be careful.

Unexpectedly, raising children is not only when you are young.

Even when you grow up, there is a lot to learn from your parents even when you grow up.

Moreover, this will spread from child to child to child with a rosary connection.

You will be cursed until the last generation.

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