AlysHoney Doesn't Live Here Anymore
(...well, ok, she never really did...)
Journal created:
on 22 May 2006 (#10290367)
Updated:
on 4 April 2010
Name:
AlysHoney
Birthdate:
1965
External Services:
I'm just here to read about sex, relationships, and alternative lifestyles, but I'm not out yet to my family or all of my best friends, so if you think you know who I am, please don't say so in public.
I've been happily married since 1987, and actively polyamorous since 2005. I havethree two one :'-( OSO for whom I have a constant battle to match schedules to find some time to spend together.
After having broken up with two OSOs in less than a year, I feel compelled to say that if I've ever given you advice about polyamory, you should probably ignore it, because it clearly wasn't working as well as I thought it was. Unless it was the part about how when they stop talking with you, it's all over; that's still as true as it ever was. I think I've mostly healed from that wretched period now, but I'm still not looking for anyone new yet.
I've been happily married since 1987, and actively polyamorous since 2005. I have
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