| Мыслевирус Достоевского |
[05 Feb 2009|04:37pm] |
Тварь ли я дрожащая или право имею?
Ответ тоже традиционный – раз такой вопрос задаёшь, значит, тварь дрожащая, и прав никаких не имеешь.
Кто право и власть имеет, у того таких вопросов в голову не приходит.
Евгений Гильбо
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| Маркетинг отчаяния |
[27 Nov 2008|12:49pm] |
Тёма говорил, что народ на рекламу (нашего тренинга) не ведется
Я: Народ в условиях кризиса вообще слабо ведется
или ведется, но на что-то другое... В условиях кризиса народ ведется на кризис...
пожалуй, все, что касается того как из него выбраться, или того, как его усугубить и будет пользоваться спросом...
имеем маркетинг отчаяния (marketing of despair): лучше всего на нём, так исторически сложилось зарабатывает медицина и политика
Свойства кризисного сознания: - есть внешняя сила, которая во всем виновата
- нужно переждать
- спасение есть, но стоит дорого
Друзья, а как вы думаете:
- какие ключевые характеристики признаки кризисного сознания
- как мыслить, чтобы в кризисе добиться неуспеха?
P.S. На выходе можно получить таблицу из двух колонок: вредные ментальные кризисные ловушки (глюки) и вторая - лекарства от них, чтобы и в условиях кризиса достигать успеха.
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| Как мыслят неудачники? |
[12 Aug 2008|07:28pm] |
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Недавно на консультации клиент спросил меня: - Ну что со мной такого, что у меня часто плохое настроение? - А во что ты веришь, когда тебе плохо? Как тебе нужно мыслить, чтобы было плохо? На что обращать внимание, что думать?
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книге известного английского нлпера Майкла Холла "Игры с фреймами"
приводятся убеждения, следование которым автоматически ведет к неуспеху
в жизни - так называемая "внутренняя структура наученной
беспомощности". Вот они: - Персонализация - Все дело во мне. Я дефективный, неадекватный, ничего не стою.
- Просачивание - Это влияет на все в жизни и отражается во всем.
- Постоянство - Это будет длится вечно, никогда не кончится.
Как вы думаете, а какие убеждения, установки являются противоположными этим?
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| Из секретов влияния на аудиторию |
[13 Oct 2007|01:10am] |
- Чем проще аудитория, тем проще ее за собой вести
- Аудитории ждет много ваших вопросов
- Задавайте любые вопросы: кто из Киева - поднимите руку, кто видел живую обезьяну (вам нужно взять инициативу)
- Вопрос = присоединение (описание того,что наблюдается здесь и сейчас и может быть использовано, как повод к обращению + само вопрошание + команда (что сделать): я вижу среди нас много женщин - интересно, кто из вас приехал на собственной машине - поднимете руку" - ахинея, конечно, но работает - важна структура!
- МИНИМУМ 50 raised up hands per training
- Поднимите руку те, кто согласен с тем, что заработать миллион – это хорошо!
- Можете посадить в зал несколько своих знакомых, которые будут поднимать руки.
- ЗАРАНЕЕ ПРИДУМАЙТЕ ПРОВОКАЦИОННЫЕ ВОПРОСЫ!
спасибо Парабеллуму за инфо.
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| Как устраиваться на работу? Как уходить с нее? |
[21 Sep 2007|09:21pm] |
Устройство
- через знакомых, друзей
- высылать яркие резюме - с хорошими мотивационными письмами и фото (перезванивать в тот же день)
- сделать видео ролик и кинуть на него ссылку в youtube - зайдите и поглядите!!!
- жирно - объявление в крутом журнале о вакансии
- просто прийти в интересующую контору и сразу...
Уход
- предупредить минимум за 2 недели
- предложить сотрудничество в рамках фриланса (если это возможно на этой должности)
- сообщить о том, что вы хотите профессионально расти в таком и таком направлении и поэтому ...(если нет карьерных перспектив) решаетесь идти дальше - главное, объяснить так, чтобы человек вас понял чисто по-человечески
- или выдать, что, по-вашему мнению, та работа, которую вы выполняете заслуживает больших денег
- поблагодарить всех и сказать, что на новом месте с радостью наладите профессиональное сотрудничество, а о личном общении не забудете
- пообещать ввести сменщика в курс дела и поддерживать первое время консультациями
- отметить переход на новое место
Друзья, а вы что знаете по этим вопросам? Буду рад расширить список вашими именными рекомендациями
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[28 Aug 2006|04:51pm] |
Thank you all for your responses (specifically "madameblake" you rock!) to my last post inquiring about welding. I have more questions...ya'all cool with that?
In my last post I'd mentioned that I had learned that a journeyman welder was 3yrs of schooling. What I hadn't realised, and no one mentioned, is that you have to apprentice for those 3yrs. I've also learnmed that apprenticeships are rarely advertised and usually found out by word of mouth.
Questions:
Does anyone know if there is some sort of preliminary schooling for welding that I'd need to take before embarking on this 3yr deal, without an apprenticeship? Just a community college class or something? It seems odd that I would seek employment for an apprenticeship without any education, ya know? I know-dumb question...but still.
Do anyone have any advise on seeking apprenticeship?
Thank you again........and again.
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[23 Aug 2006|04:01pm] |
Hey guys. I'm Jerry...with a J.
I'm in a situation where there's alot that I'm thinking I might want to do but don't actually know how or what my options might be.
Example:lately I've been thinking about getting a welding ticket or saving up money and becoming a welding journeyman and moving to Alberta where they pay $40hr. I've never been motivated by money, but I'm 30yrs old now with no more to show for it than when I was 20yrs old, so I'm reading to aspire. To move up.
Is anyone in the same boat?
I'm in Canada-does anyone know of a career counsillor or if this type of advise giver exists and where I might track said advise giver down? Is there a fee?
Thank you.
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| new inspiration from barbara sher! |
[14 Apr 2006|06:47am] |
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i just finished reading barbara sher's new book, Refuse to Choose! i think it should be required reading for everyone. our society values the specialist, but many people are more drawn to variety and learning a little bit about many things. sher calls such people Scanners (specialists are Divers); the book is about the various different types of Scanner, and how Scanners can manage their many interests and find satisfying careers that don't require specialization. the reason why i think *everyone* should read it - even Divers - is that it would really help to increase people's understanding of the Scanner personality, and i think it would increase society's respect for people who want a broader frame of reference.
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[21 Mar 2006|12:34pm] |
Sat since my last post I did an 8 min bathroom clean.
Sunday I did 8 x 20 minute cleaning drills with the
flylady online chat room. It was a case of each of us choosing what
cleaning to do. I did 3 bathroom, 4 dusting/scrubbing in the living
room, and one some of each. Also went food shopping.
yesterday (Monday) I did a 10 min online cleaning drill, and went
for a walk and stretched afterwards.
Now it is Tuesday, and so far I have done 9 x 20 min cleaning drills through the chat room, 1 x 10 mins and 1x 7 min drill (joined that one late:) ). I also two 8 min tidies on my own. Yesterday and today my task has been sorting paperwork. Always includes throwing plenty out:)
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[18 Mar 2006|11:38pm] |
a revolution of individuality.
you are an amazing person.
what if everyone knew this. and was told this, and it was true. what if every day you woke up in the morning and were fully aware of how individual you were. what if you weren't clumped into a stereotype; a mass. what if you weren't judged by your outside, but by your mind. or better, what if you weren't judged at all? what if you were not ever in fear of someone hating you because you were different. weren't afraid of being shut out, and not feeling the urge to conform.
well, you are an amazing person. you are an individual. there is something unique about you that no one can take away or clump with someone else. you are not like a star, lost in the sky. you are not like a blade of grass lost in a field. you are not what you are grouped into, you are a self.
how many people don't beleive me? or rather, how many people will look at me and say that i'm an idealist? and how sad is it that to know the inherent worth of each individual in the world and their capacity for good, and self understanding, is pathetic? why would that be brushed off? why is it that in this world, all we have in the end is ourselves, and yet a majority of the world feels that they are nothing without the conformity of others?
you are an amazing being. you are a capable, loving, individual.
you are loved, you can love, you understand. you are not part of a mass, or a stereotype or a clique. what is a mass but a group of individuals who give up their sense of self for the sake of a larger group? but once all in a mass have given up their sense of self, then there is only the idea of a mass. there aren't any individuals to back it.
what is the use of a mass, when you yourself are an amazing person?
you are. there is nothing greater than your individuality.
this is not a weird religious persuasion, this is not a fanatic cult, this is merely an idea. a revolution of individuality. this is realizing that you, as an idividual matter.
we tread near the very fine line of communism vs anarchy, all in the name of welfare, security and individual freedom. i am an acrobat of humanity. you mean the world, to the world. you are an individual, not a mere pawn in the masses.
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| my week |
[19 Mar 2006|01:06am] |
Monday I went through the printed-out index and marked which orgs
had websites, which website corresponded with which orgs, and some
extra details for a couple of othe orgs.
Tuesday I went through a number of the websites I had marked as
favorites, and wrote down the contact details for those which looked
as if they were what I was looking for, for doing a student
placement. Some of them were not specifically mental health sites
some were for homeless people and some were for youth, they might
be very good orgs for me to do a placement with.
I ended up finding out on Wednesday that I will have to pick something
other than mental health for my first placement, so as to save mental
health for the second placement in case I want to work in the mental health area after graduating. (We have to do two different placements). Oh well, at least I now know a bit more about the
current mental health service providers than before, and I can do
youth or homeless people for my first placement.
Also bought DVD recorder which was on a very cheap special. It didn't hook up with my TV though, so a
friend of mine is going to look for a cheap 2nd hand TV, he will get
one for me if there is a cheap one near to where he lives. (I wasn't
confident myself in knowing whether I would be choosing right, if I
were to look for a second-hand one myself.)
Wednesday I finished noting down the phone numbers from relevant
websites. Last week's assignment was to draft a letter requesting
to do a student placement at a given org, so my next step will be to
make any necessary adjustments according to which org it is. I
emailed the teacher of the class related to the work placement to
ask whether it is advisable to speak with the relevant team leader
of an org before sending the application. I went for a walk/jog in
the park (and have stretched afterwards), and emailed my updated
resume to a Human Resources Consultant. Having found out the
requirements of doing placements for two different client groups, I
printed up an index of the homelessness resources very close to me,
so at least that is a start! Did some meditation, and then joined
in an online 15 min kitchen clean - that is to say, I washed a few
dishes which were close at hand, and put some rubbish items in a bag
ready to be thrown out.
Thursday, I went for a quick jog and walk twice. Every little bit
helps! Paid gas bill.
Yesterday (Fri), I did 6 X 8 min tidying sessions.
I also did two 30 min tidying blocks through a fly chat room -
good to do things at the same time as other people, even when it's
online:)
Today (Sat) I did a 15 min tidying block through the chat room, and 8 x 8 min tidy, and done a round of the house throwing out any obvious "smellies and nasties". I had to clear the living room and hallway this afternoon before a student came, and that was where the work from today and yesterday showed: I had a few piles of paper in the hallway, roughly sorted into categories, so I was able to put them straight into the hallway cupboard, still in their piles so I will able to find what I need of those pieces of paper. So that is progress for me! Also did a quick sweep of the porch and stairs outside the front door (including under the doormat), and threw out the junkmail near the letterbox, as there was a prospective student coming to observe the lesson. I was going to mow the front lawn as well, but I ran out of time, due to being caught on the internet lol.
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| things i've been doing lately |
[15 Mar 2006|07:42am] |
most of my goals are things i kind of have to do myself, so i haven't been posting much here. for example, i'm the only one who can reduce the amount of clutter and stuff in my house. but here's a bit of this week's to-do list:
- finish painting project in the family room downstairs. i decided that one of the colors down there wasn't quite right, and it's almost entirely replaced with a better color. i also created a pattern of polka dots on one of the walls, and it is SO FABULOUS. it ties all three of the wall colors together.
- put second coat of primer on studio walls. this project is finally getting close to completion, now that my fellas have moved the furniture around so that i can *get to* the walls that still need paint.
- clean house like a madwoman and try not to have nervous breakdown about impending houseguest who will arrive this friday.
more goals o' mine here: nayad's 43 (okay, 39) things.
future goals that may require some help will be: school-related things, since i want to go back and finish my college degree, starting within a couple of years, but there's not much to do about that now; also business help on getting my artwork and creative projects out into the world (in exchange for some money landing in my pockets, ideally!).
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[16 Mar 2006|12:24am] |
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I will post again if someone else posts:)
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[06 Mar 2006|05:23am] |
I mowed the back lawn on Monday - VERY long grass! - and put the
flyscreen door back (a couple of months ago its screws had pulled out
of their holes.
Friday - returned a book to the library in another suburb.
- dropped off the form for profession development at the music festival
- banked 2 cheques
- picked up some cardboard boxes from the supermarket (for putting
stuff in, to get it off the floor. It will add to my many boxes of
stuff).
- shopped, including eggs and vegemite
- faxed form for withdrawing from course at Chisholm college of
Technical and Further Education, because I will be doing the course at
Swinburne
Saturday I boiled some eggs for the shared lunch at the
yoga centre.
Yesterday (Sunday) I began drafting a letter requesting to undertake a
student placement with the Mental Illness Fellowship of Australia, the
placement being for the Diploma of Community Development which I am
doing at Swinburne college of TAFE. This morning I finished off that letter.
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| A quick survey |
[27 Nov 2005|02:13pm] |
I am in the process of having my life coaching website redone and would like to do some research. I could use your help. Just answer the following questions. No obligation and feel free to email them to me if you don't want to post it here (ally at allymoll dot com). I'm getting very excited about the revamping of my site and feeling like I found a good niche for my business :)
1. What is the one "big dream" you have for your life?
2. Have you acheived it or are you taking steps to start living your dream life?
3. If not, what is stopping you? Are you just putting it off (procrastinating) or do you feel it's an impossible dream?
Thanks everyone!
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| Hi |
[01 Oct 2005|11:50am] |
Back in May, I posted a total of 16 goals in this community. The following is in relation to goal #3 (Get my house into reasonable order):
Over the last 5 months I have only had occasional, very brief spurts
of trying to FLY (see www.flylady.net). It is better than nothing though. Right now I am
following the babysteps which have been on the website this month (I
have written them all down before it gets taken off the website - last
year I saw them on the site, they were then called baby boogie, but
then they disappeared from the site before I had even made a start
with them). So last night I shined my sink, and then did my first
ever 2 min hot spot and 5 min room rescue, then 15 min trash collection, then the weekly flyspot (cleaning technology) and the daily zone mission (vacuum), then today(Sat morning) I did another 2 min hot spot, another 5 min room rescue, another 15 min trash collection, and printed out the instructions on how to use a calender.
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[20 Sep 2005|12:04pm] |
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if you had one day left to live what would you do?
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hello my name is bird.
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| eclectic arts group! |
[17 Sep 2005|09:32am] |
i have this idea for an online community of creative people that i hope will eventually become a group that meets in person as well as online. the group would be for having discussions about all kinds of creative pursuits, such as art, writing, music, interior decorating, cooking, humor, non-traditional relationships, the appreciation of all of the above, and anything else that comes to mind. it's really open to any topic, as a place for bouncing ideas around and seeing what kind of wild results can come out of a bunch of open-minded life-experiencing people stimulating each other's minds. so i've made an email list, Eclectic Arts, and here's the description you'll see at the group's main page:
"This is a group for anyone who feels the need to express creativity in art, writing, or lifestyle. It's the first step in creating an arts association that, I hope, will allow artistic people around the world to get to know each other and share ideas and techniques. I want it to be a group where people can not only enjoy each other's company, but also find help to make all of their wacky creative schemes into reality - anything from throwing an art show to starting a commune! If this kind of big thinking is for you, join up and see what happens!"
and here is my personal invitation to YOU: if you feel at all interested in the arts, whether or not you consider yourself to be able to produce anything creative, i would like for you to join this group and be a part of creating this vision. i believe that everyone has creativity in them, but that it's easiest for that creativity to find its way out if it is drawn out by interesting discussions, surroundings, and characters. it might be hard to get a group up to critical mass - the size and activity level where people get the most out of being in the group - but it will be impossible if everybody hangs back and waits to see who else joins first. so please join now! to do that, go to the Eclectic Arts group page and subscribe. :)
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