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Hey [%%daylong %%,
Thursday 3rd, 2006]

cate211
My fiance and I were originally going to get married August 18th of next year. Lately though, we've been discussing it and decided to elope THIS MONTH.
The reason: Money is one reason. We just can't afford a huge wedding and neither of our families would settle for less than spectacular. Also, his father would definitely not come and it's going to smush James' feelings so we figure eloping = no invites = no hurt feelings.
Basically we have everything figured out except finding an officiator. He's Wiccan and I'm Baptist so we don't really want a preacher since we can't settle on what faith he should be of...so anyone have any idea how to find a cheap officiator?

Also...has/is anyone else on this site eloped or considered it?
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I am leaving LJ [%%daylong %%,
Sunday 23rd, 2006]

hedder_42
I am done with people I dont want to read this, reading this. Sure it was ok for a while but I cant say my own opinions without pissing someone off, and then I dont hear the end of things. So if you still want to keep in touch email me and tell me who you are on Live Journal and I can keep in touch with you, or if you have myspace, I do too, and I can still type there with freedom. SO lemme know! Furballs_a_qt@hotmail.com is my email
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Get what ya have to say out, now! [%%daylong %%,
Wednesday 1st, 2006]

hedder_42
( not much time left!Collapse )
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White Wedding Weekend [%%daylong %%,
Monday 30th, 2006]

heapha

The most wedding filled weekend of my life thus far.

 

This weekend was a lot of fun.

 

Saturday

 

Pam, Myself and Kristen went brides dress shopping.  We had 2 appointments and 3 stores to visit from my list.  That is not however what happened.

 

Stop 1 – Farina Fashions

Shopping did not get off to a good start as we waited in Farina fashions for about 10 minutes before anyone even asked us if we needed any help.  I wouldn’t have minded only we did have an appointment.  In the end someone did come over and ask us if we were alright – but it wasn’t a sales lady it was one of the back of shop staff so she didn’t have a very good idea of what she was doing.  She did handle having 2 future brides changing alternatively very well though which I thought was good for her – not many others that we saw could have handled that.

 

I tried on 2 dresses in total at this shop (yes I am picky) and only one of them really seemed close enough for me to consider taking the mother back to see and even then it would be only for ideas.  There was one dress Pam tried on here that was awesome for her but in the end it is up to her what she wants.  But the dress did look fantastic.

 

Stop 2 – Abby Bridal/Celtic designs

From Farina the plan was to head upstairs to Abby Bridal and try out the Maggie Sottero designs for size.  The place was PACKED.  I was horribly reminded of a Myer Boxing day sale.  The decision was made that this was NOT going to happen and that we should return on a day when most brides are working.  Abby Bridal currently pushed back to April due to them not taking appointments.  I wasn’t particually cut as there is little on there site that does impress me and the small amount that did – according to my checking with the store are discontinued lines.

 

All was not a loss here however as on our way to Abby we did find a lovely store called Celtic Designs.  Not only do they have a couturist that specialises in celtic dresses they sell kilt pins and rings and brooches and well lots of celtic designed things as the name suggests.  Further they were able to give Pam a flier for a celtic celebrant.  I think she is liking this idea.

 

Stop 3 – Aashe Bridal

On our entry to the dymocks building we discovered a flier girl telling us that there was up to 50% off today at Aashe.  So I thought why not head up to level 8 (we had the time after all) and visit.  To my dismay it was not bridal wear so much as it was bridesmaids wear.  No matter we checked it out and both pam and Kris tried on dresses before we yet again set off this time in search of lunch (found at myer food court).

 

Stop 4 – Millani Bridal

Quite possibly my least favourite of bridal stores I have been too.  Mainly due to the service I got.  It started out well enough a woman asking if we were ok – but her English was not very good so she couldn’t understand what I was after.  I did pick out two dresses though when another woman came over told the woman to have her lunch and that she would take care of me.  This I think was poor form but I let it go.  She took the two dresses from the woman of little English I once again explained what I was after (not strapless, not fairy princess) and we set out to find some more dresses. 

 

Somewhere along the line pam found a very nice and competent sales assistant to help her out and she picked out some stuff to try on also.  Over to the change rooms we head.

 

I try on every dress that the woman had decided I should try on but still don’t see the two slinky 1930’s style sheath dresses I had chosen.  Finally after about 4 dresses she says well that’s it and I think where did those two dresses I chose disappear to.  I find one just outside the change room hung up with another BTB discards and say hey what about this one but I never did get to try on my first choice.  Apparently the sales assistant knows better than me what I want.  Who am I to argue her into a possible thousand plus dollar sale. 

 

Pam does like a couple she tries on takes details and we leave for a coffee at jet.

 

Stop 5 – Engagment party.

Benj and Rhi’s engagement party was tops and I had a good time.  Glad that she seemed to like the Nigella Lawson stuff we got her.

 

Sunday

 

Sunday was mother/daughter bridal shopping day followed by church visit and dinner lots of fun

 

Stop 1 – Brides of Piccadilly

The most amazing sales person ever at this store.  She took the ideas I had – didn’t restrict herself by them and found a mound of silk and satin form me to try on – then as we were trying took any feedback to find even more lace and chantung.

 

She seemed to be excited about the idea of a theme to the wedding and went so far as to borrow veils from the shop next door so that I could see the finished look properly.  And boy did she have some awesome ideas.  I am totally taking pam there before the expo on Saturday she will love it.

 

We found at least 2 definate maybe’s in this store – unfortunately looking at there site I think she may have put down the price for the wrong dress but it is nothing I can’t check/rectify next Saturday J.

 

Stop 2 – Jean Fox

Again a wonderful sales person – not nearly as helpful but it appeared that someone had overbooked the appointments and she was as cheery helpful and nice as she could be running between 3 BTB’s to get them all sorted.  There was again some definite thoughts from this store but not necessarily THE DRESS.  Still it was fun to try on my first fro fro fairy dress if only for a laugh.

 

Stop 3 – Discount bridal store next door.

There was nothing here but we did stop so I thought I should mention it.  Then we went and had lunch.

 

Stop 4 – Villoni

Like Aashe this store didn’t really have much in the way of bridal dresses but ideas for bridemaids and some absolutely HORRID dresses for laughing at.

 

Stop 5 – Church

Picked up the boy his mother and after some mass confusion we were on our way to the church.  We had mass then we went out for dinner which was really nice

 

 

NEXT WEEKEND
Bridal expo fantasy weekend.

 

 

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come join [%%daylong %%,
Tuesday 10th, 2006]

babypinkchick
come join this group!

http://www.livejournal.com/userinfo.bml?user=_cute_couples
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we have cups! [%%daylong %%,
Monday 9th, 2006]

hedder_42

( whoo hoo the first planned part of our wedding!Collapse )

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I need help [%%daylong %%,
Monday 9th, 2006]

hedder_42
Someone has been posting messages saying brent cheated on me with this person, and its anonymous. I have a IP address but dont know how to find out who the person is, does anyone know how to run those? message me back or aim me drainyou2736 or msn me furballs_a_qt@hotmail.com your help would be appreciated!
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I figured it out [%%daylong %%,
Thursday 5th, 2006]

hedder_42
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what do I do? [%%daylong %%,
Thursday 5th, 2006]

hedder_42
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happy 2006 [%%daylong %%,
Sunday 1st, 2006]

hedder_42

 

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happy new year! [%%daylong %%,
Saturday 31st, 2005]

hedder_42
I just hope everyone has a safe and happy new year. Maybe some of you will go through with your new years resolutiions! I really hope I can! If you decide to party hard please be smart, come home safe and sound!
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stupid photobucket [%%daylong %%,
Monday 26th, 2005]

hedder_42
It likes to say my bandwidth is exceeded alot. So I am gonna stick to imagestation. I went and put all of my recent pics in one album on imagestation for those of you who missed the pics! SO click the link!

www.imagestation.com/album/pictures.html?id=2115665289
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Glad thats over [%%daylong %%,
Monday 26th, 2005]

hedder_42

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Christmas Day!! [%%daylong %%,
Sunday 25th, 2005]

hedder_42

( ho ho hoCollapse )

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Merry Holidays!! [%%daylong %%,
Saturday 24th, 2005]

hedder_42
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anyone miss me? [%%daylong %%,
Wednesday 21st, 2005]

hedder_42

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snowy day [%%daylong %%,
Thursday 8th, 2005]

hedder_42

 

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A much more full introduction [%%daylong %%,
Friday 9th, 2005]

heapha

 

 

Well my name is Heather I am 23 years old (will be 24 when I get married).  My Fiance is Christopher but we all call him Topher for short and he is a year older than me.

 

We got engaged in June this year (10th of June to be exact).  2 days later to his surprise I had found the perfect date (in my mind anyway) 10th March 2007.  It will be our 5 year anniversary and it happens to fall on a Saturday.  Though he had originally thought 2008 he agreed that not having to remember a new date was best for him.

 

I think I surprised everyone with my enthusiasm to get everything done NOW.  I have the plan to be fully organised at least 6mths before the day so that when things go wrong I have time to fix them calmly.  Obviously this is a pipe dream but you can’t blame a girl for trying can you?

 

I am going to be having a quite traditional wedding (which also surprised a lot of people because I am generally an unconventional girl) but I think that when I look back on the photo’s I will want them to be timeless.  I will wear the white dress, have the church, the 3 course reception etc.  The only downfall is that we don’t have an unlimited budget so we need to try and get everything we want at a fair price.

 

So far so good on that one though.  We booked our reception centre in November.  After months of scouring the city for reception halls and getting sent half the Amazon in Brochures we decided that the first place we saw was our favourite after all.  Bonus – it was also the cheapest we had looked at. The picture behind here may tell you why we fell in love with it – that is the view looking at the head table.

 

Last week we found our church.  This was a mammoth task because He is a confirmed Athiest who was babtised under the catholic faith and I was christened Church of England (which no longer exists in Australia) but believe in the old time gods.  His mother is the one who really wants a religious wedding and through years of conditioning both of us wanted a church for Asthetic reasons.

 

Being that neither of us go to church, nor desired to go to church the first place we looked at because the preist is my FH mothers 2nd cousin or something like that wanted us to go to Mass (myself a non catholic included) until the wedding.  Well I can say I went to one and just didn’t feel comfortable.  Whilst I don’t have faith in that religion I have to much respect for other peoples faith to “lip Sync” their ceremonies.

 

So we kept searching and now have found an Anglican church that is absoulutly beautiful inside and out – it has bells that they can organise to be rung (for a fee of cause) and they are happy to marry non paritioners so long as they pay the fee.  The Rev was nice and we would only have to go to 4 services at the church to get a feel for the building and have 3 interviews with the Rev.  Both of us said “I’m sold”.  And his mother is happy to be having the Religious ceremony.

 

Other than that we have decided only that he will wear a kilt (he is not scottish but of scottish decent) we will have 5 attendants each, mine are my two sisters, two girlfriends and one male who I am very close to and think of as like a brother. To counteract this he has a female who he has a close friendship with on his side also.

I think I want the bridesmaids in black.  Not really traditional but flattering to all.

 

Also included in the cut is a pic of the dress I want to get made – If I can ever find a dressmaker who isn’t a rip off merchant. J

 

Sorry I am at work and I can't figure out how to add the pics - so I will have to wait till FH is home so he can show me :)

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A few different days of pics [%%daylong %%,
Thursday 8th, 2005]

hedder_42

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I am new! [%%daylong %%,
Thursday 8th, 2005]

hedder_42

( I am exctied!Collapse )

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