Wolfinden
Ventings of a Burdened Mind - Current Preoccupations.
Journal created:
on 31 March 2009 (#19322739)
Updated:
on 24 October 2026
Name:
Dave
Birthdate:
12 September 1981
Location:
Manchester, United Kingdom
Nice guy, sarcastic, deep thinker. Very loyal and honest. Expect others to treat me the same way I treat them, which can sometimes lead to disappointment!
Wheelchair user from birth. Fell in love with a care assistant of mine, and our contact ended spectacularly badly, with her refusing to talk to me... so I think that will haunt me for the rest of my life.
My interests tell the rest of the story...
If I add you, yet don't comment to your journal right away, then don't take it personally... I can be shy sometimes - even online - and I figure if it's meant to be then our paths will cross all in good time! :-) I DO read everyone I add, though. If you want to lurk at my place, then that's cool too. Pretty much anything goes, although I do reserve the right to screen our interactions if you're being an ass (which no-one has been yet... don't be the first!)
I add people because I like their writing style... I don't even *necessarily* have to be interested in the things they write about, just the way they write about them. If a particular phrase you used catches my eye, then you're in.
If you friend me, I will more than likely add you back, unless:
* we don't post in the same language
* you have minimal journal content (doesn't matter about the number of posts, but some kind of substance is important)
* You are obviously underage. Chronological years aren't important, but I do demand a certain level of maturity, because I'm not here to babysit, or censor myself for the benefit of children.
I care about events because they're topical and interesting and I want people to give their opinions... but I'm not looking for an epiphany.
Apart from the events in my own life and the lives of those I hold close; EVERYTHING is abstract to me; that's the way this journal works, and the way it will always work... If people don't want to have a discussion then they don't have to have one, but it's important that people get the gist of my motives for posting.
I never write ANYTHING with a definite point of view - I'm always open to having my mind changed. I try to leave subjects open-ended and invite people to make up their own minds... It's to a person's credit if they find that they already have, but they shouldn't necessarily expect to find a consensus here.
Wheelchair user from birth. Fell in love with a care assistant of mine, and our contact ended spectacularly badly, with her refusing to talk to me... so I think that will haunt me for the rest of my life.
My interests tell the rest of the story...
If I add you, yet don't comment to your journal right away, then don't take it personally... I can be shy sometimes - even online - and I figure if it's meant to be then our paths will cross all in good time! :-) I DO read everyone I add, though. If you want to lurk at my place, then that's cool too. Pretty much anything goes, although I do reserve the right to screen our interactions if you're being an ass (which no-one has been yet... don't be the first!)
I add people because I like their writing style... I don't even *necessarily* have to be interested in the things they write about, just the way they write about them. If a particular phrase you used catches my eye, then you're in.
If you friend me, I will more than likely add you back, unless:
* we don't post in the same language
* you have minimal journal content (doesn't matter about the number of posts, but some kind of substance is important)
* You are obviously underage. Chronological years aren't important, but I do demand a certain level of maturity, because I'm not here to babysit, or censor myself for the benefit of children.
I care about events because they're topical and interesting and I want people to give their opinions... but I'm not looking for an epiphany.
Apart from the events in my own life and the lives of those I hold close; EVERYTHING is abstract to me; that's the way this journal works, and the way it will always work... If people don't want to have a discussion then they don't have to have one, but it's important that people get the gist of my motives for posting.
I never write ANYTHING with a definite point of view - I'm always open to having my mind changed. I try to leave subjects open-ended and invite people to make up their own minds... It's to a person's credit if they find that they already have, but they shouldn't necessarily expect to find a consensus here.
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