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[Mar. 9th, 2006|04:36 pm]
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Where are the best places to have sex in this town outside?
My boyfriend and I were walking by the Alma Mater statue the other day and we had both thought about how cool it would be to have sex in that chair behind the statue. That one's probably a pipedream, but there's got to be some other good places. |
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| Hello |
[Mar. 9th, 2006|04:29 pm]
Aphrodite
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Hello, people who have joined, to my dead community. Nobody ever writes here other than myself (in my various live journal forms). Feel free to change this. I kind of gave up on this community, but I am not against renewing my interest.
Yours,
JJS |
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| The "Stranger Encounter" Senario |
[Nov. 22nd, 2005|03:52 pm]
Aphrodite
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I've been meaning to post this for a while, but I haven't really had down time.
My BF and I went out to dinner a few weeks ago (maybe amonth ago), and I started talking about how our pre-hookup period had been regrettibly brief. What I mean is that we didn't really have a significant period of time when we both liked eachother but hadn't admitted it yet. I felt we had missed out a little on the tantilizing period of longing and unspoken sexual attraction. We started joking around and pretending that we weren't dating. We flirted in veiled way and that sort of thing. It was all just in fun, but I found it REALLY sexy. And so I started concidering something I never thought I would: Stranger roleplaying.
I have next to no experience in sexual role-playing. I tried it once a long time ago and found it akward. However, the sexual excitement I experienced pretending like I was hitting on a crush has sparked my interest once again. I was considering trying the following senario at some point:
I would go to a bar by myself and order a glass of wine. I think I should be slightly tipsy before my BF arrives so that my inabitions are lowered. He would come in later and we would pretend like we didn't know eachother but are very attracted to eachother. I would make eyes at him across the room and other seductive things until he was physically aroused. Then, he would come over and offer to buy me a drink. The would ask about interests and flirt, all the time acting as if we had never met. Since we are "strangers", things that are normally commonplace (like touching my leg and other physical contact) become out-of-bounds. Not to say that they are not allowed, just that physical contact is a big deal and every touch becomes hyper-sensitive and a secret omminsion of interest. This would be extremely tantilizing and teasing. I think the whole senario would progress until the sexual tension was so bad that we couldn't take it anymore. We probably wouldn't make it to either of our houses. Following the senario, sex would probably take place in my car or some public place. I think going to one of our houses would downplay the mystery since they are places of comfort and familiar to both of us.
I like this idea for a few reasons. First, I think that we might actually learn new things about eachother if we acted like we are strangers. Sometimes getting-to-know-you questions fall by the wayside as two people become comfortable in a relationship even if there is much more to learn. Secondly, the tension of restraint and the amplifying effect on physical contact would be exilerating. Finally, the slight-exhibitionism of the entire affair would intensify the entire senario. Watching couples hook up at a bar is a popular spectators sport. The idea that many people in the bar would be secretly observing our interaction would be exhilerating. And when we left together in a rush, the idea that everyone who had been secretly watching knows that we are going to have sex is especially exciting.
This whole idea is very interesting to me and I desperatly want to try it. However, since I am a role-playing novice, any advice and tips would be greatly appreciated. I know that I am more into this idea than my partner, so I want it to be as fabulous as possible for him. While he is very open about experimentation, I feel it is my duty as the "head" of this idea to take care of all the details. Please give me your suggestions. I want this to be as sexy as possible. |
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| Elexa? |
[Oct. 21st, 2005|02:15 pm]
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So, I was at the store when I noticed that they have a new line of "intimacy products" called Elexa by Trojan. I don't really know what the deal is. In each box you get 1-3 premium latex condoms (no specifics as to what size condom or if they have any special features) + some sort of extra "woman" thing. The condoms appear to be generic, which is a big NO for me. But they are manufactured by Trojan, so it is hard to tell without purchasing one of these "fun boxes" and trying them for yourself.
This is the website for this new brand:
http://www.elexabytrojan.ca/products.aspx
I don't really know what to think about this. Their slogan is that these products are inspired by a female prspective. That's cool I suppose. But why would I spend $8 on a package that comes with only 3 condoms in it? I guess it's all in the extras. One package comes with a vibrating cock ring. That might be interesting. But does this toy work with all condoms -or- just the ONE condom that comes with it? Another package comes with "intimacy gel" which apparently heats up. It is supposed to make you more sensitive. I have a problem with those types of products. I spent $11 dollars once on a bottle of lubricant that was supposed to heat up, but I never felt any temperature difference. It is that slight -or- was I doing something wrong? The third package comes with cleansing cloths for that "fresh feeling." I really don't get the hotness of that. If you use it before sex, won't you a)wash away all of your natural lubricant -and- b) won't you taste like chemicals? I suppose it could be useful afterwards, but the benifits do not seem to outweigh the cost.
I am on the fence about whether or not these products could actually be fun and interesting. It seem like it might just be a marketing ploy. But, I guess you can't knock it until you try it. So... if anyone is interested in experimenting with these products and writing a review, that would be super. Very Consumer Reports. I am weary of trying them myself because I'm afraid that the condoms will be too small for my partner and that's a lot of money to waste for something you might not be able to use. So I am calling on you to be the consumers voice of reason. It is just a pretty package and a cracker jack prize -or- should we be thanking Trojan for their concern about women's sexual pleasure? |
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| Magnum Shortage (hmmmm...) |
[Oct. 18th, 2005|04:02 pm]
Aphrodite
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There is a serious shortage of Magnum sized condoms in the C-U area. I had to go to 3 stores before I found any. And even then there were only 2 varieties: regular and warm sensations. I, of course, got warm sensations. But seriously, If I was in a rush for protection, I would have totally lost my girl-boner by the time I finally got my hands on some. What fine C-U retailer offers a wide and bountiful selection of condoms for the well-endowed man? I mean, don't the physically gifted deserve the same variety of colors, tastes, and extras as the average man. Big men deresve twisted pleasure and mint tingle condoms too. And their partners deserve her pleasure condoms. Don't be haters. |
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| Twice in one night?!?!?!?!? |
[Oct. 16th, 2005|09:08 pm]
Aphrodite
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A hardy welcome to Travis a.k.a.  spikeyboy84 for joining the community. I'm sure that he will bring a lot of...interesting... information to the table. I'm sure Tara agrees with that. But like they say, if you can't talk about sex with your brother, who can you talk to about it?
I'm funny. |
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| New Member!!!!!! |
[Oct. 16th, 2005|06:41 pm]
Aphrodite
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I would like to cordially welcome  anoveltheory to our little community. He is the first member who is not my friend and therefore not obligated to be here. Please share any and all ideas you may have. I thrive on discussion. It's been a little one sided so far :)
Welcome again!!!!!!!! |
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| Eyes (not technically about sex) |
[Oct. 15th, 2005|02:48 pm]
Aphrodite
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Do you know what it means when someone says that eyes are the windows of the soul? I mean, REALLY understand it? In a guttural way. It's not just some mindless philisophical bullshit. It's an attempt to describe something beyond words.
Sometimes when you look into someone's eyes, you see so much more than you thought you could ever see. You become transfixed, lenses disappear, and souls reach out like wispy hands, like smoke, and grasp eachother, pulling eachother deep inside. At these moments, eyes are like magnets. Locked fast as a mysterious energy pulses like an electric current across an invisible connection. It creates a deep imprint in the mind. An indescribable feeling. Everything within you resists breaking this connection, and eyes are instinctivly pulled back again and again.
In my experience, this phenomenon is extremely rare. Most of the time,lenses act like invisible barriers. And you know that you can only go so far. There are depths that you will never reach. I think that "love at first sight" cannot be based soley on physical attraction and hormones. It's in the eyes. The connection is instant, deep and intense. These lovers know that they are capable of penetrating into the deepest depths of each other. That vaccuum feeling, that deep connection, surpasses and enhances all physical trivialities. Seeing into them, like gazing at the universe. You know them truely and completely. Their soul is laid bare for you to see and it can hardly be comprehended. It is a sexual, spiritual union of souls. It surpasses life itself. Memories are formed around looks instead of activities. Each memory recalled has an electric energy that shakes you. It reverberates within you, it holds the breath in your chest. The connection trumps the environment. The world dissapates into a grey fog and all that is left are two sets of eyes, two souls dancing in a universe of their own creation.
If you think this sounds cheesy, dramatic, poeticized, fanciful, or exaggerated, then you have never experienced this connection. It is the stuff that dreams and soul mates are made of. If you are with someone and you do not have this connection, be aware that you are only dancing on the surface of love. The comforts of commonality, the fun, the humor are all just a whisper of what they could be. You will never know each other completely. You will never be a true union of souls. Your love will only penatrate so far. If you love yourself and care for your partner, if you don't want to go through this life in vain, acknowledge that you are only playing the part of lovers. Perhaps it is just a stepping stone. Most people will never know this because they are impatient and jump into the first descent thing. You need to be patient, open, and you need to believe. |
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| Needs (another sensual poem by Jordan J. Smith) |
[Oct. 15th, 2005|02:45 pm]
Aphrodite
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I need to feel sex electric in my bloodstream
I need to feel warm breath soft on my neck
I need to feel lips gently graze my jawbone
I need to gasp involuntarily
I need to taste lips completely in synch with mine
I need to have a strong grip on my waist
I need to feel a cold wall against my back
I need to feel a hard man pressing onto my hips
I need to feel hands playing trepidaciously around my breasts
I need to feel a finger slip under my stocking
I need to see only stars |
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| Desire (a sensual poem) by Jordan J Smith |
[Oct. 15th, 2005|02:41 pm]
Aphrodite
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It smells like sweat and too much Tommy cologne
The world is a sea of pastel button up shirts and frosted faux-hawks
Sequined bags and ruffled miniskirts that belong on barbie dolls
It sickens me
I see you and know instantly that you don't belong here
eyes look into souls
dialating to let the icy chill penetrate deeper
my tongue runs over my lips
hoping to taste you already
I am instantly diminished
hypersensitive to the heat of your body
like a phantom touch
Can you know all of me already?
Place your hand at the small of my back and draw me closer
lights fade, only your eyes remain
cheek brushes cheek, you are so close
I can sense your lips before they touch mine
we barely connect and it hits me like a brick
soft, but not timid
my breathe is pulled inside of me
it's too intense, I scream silently
all of this aggression explodes inside of me
we go deeper
things become frantic
legs wrap around your waist
it's too late now
There is no time for trivialities |
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