oursin: My photograph of Praire Buoy sculpture, Meadowbrook Park, Urbana, overwritten with Urgent, Phallic Look (urgent phallic)

I am a bit irked that this article Driven by porn, social media and an obsession with looksmaxxing, more and more men are suffering from small-penis panic, leading them to extreme cosmetic procedures. Is the risk ever worth it? in yesterday's Observer is paywalled online.

On the other hand.... was it that good an article anyway.

Is this, historian asks, A New Thing? (Hardly.) (No, they did not talk to historians, though they did cite the thing about The Classical Greeks thought Small Was Beautiful.)

I suspect anthropologists would mutter that koro is Not The Same Thing, however dramatic a lead-in that is.

Anyway, somewhat buried in the text of the article it was pointed out that in the vast majority of cases, these men are Within The Normal Range, and their belief that their manhood is small and inferior is possibly something they should take up with a therapist, rather than spending $$$$ on dodgy and dangerous operations to willy-maxx.

Which we rather doubt contribute to anyone's pleasure?

Was reminded of TV doco I saw years ago (well years ago, pre-Viagra) about men seeking remedies for erectile problems, including injecting with papaverine (???) resulting in prolonged and painful erection, and implanting prosthetics. None of which sounded, well, enjoyable.

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Have I posted anything about this before, which is quite horrendous? not to mention, arrant quackery: Update on Vaginal Laser Therapy for Menopause. Maybe I will not actually quote the leg-crossingly ugh details, but:

all we had in the literature were small, unblinded, observational studies, which, considering how women have been harmed by other inadequately studied devices like the Dalkon Shield and vaginal mesh, was unacceptabl

which didn't stop this practice from being promoted and performed.

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Recovering the Overlooked Stories of Women Amateur Filmmakers: Exploring the collection of Wessex Film and Sound Archive:

When families record their home movies, the films are often credited to the father or male spouse, even when close analysis of the on-screen footage shows that the male spouse appears on camera with the same frequency as the female partner. Who held the camera? Who shuffled children into view and tweaked the lighting? Filmmaking in these contexts was more often, collaborative than the sole work of one individual. However, the contributions of these women is considered not worthy of mention, the films were ‘his’ films, ‘his’ work and therefore when items are passed to an archive it becomes a matter of fact that the films are the product of a single male filmmaker.

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I don't know if everybody's seen this already but yay for people taking out the codfish and smacking back at the idea that women writing fantasy is Some Whole New Thing (siiiigh).

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I'm currently reading a book by one of I guess the modern generation (I dunno: X? Millennial?) which I am finding rather blah and the protag wringing wet, and I contrast her with this woman and others of her generation (one senior to my own), Mugging Up: Jane Miller remembers Diana Melly:

She was a consummate learner and never wasted time.... Her memoir is the story of their passionate, wayward and nearly impossible marriage, strewn with adulteries on both sides, with drugs and drunkenness, with unhappiness and serious mental breakdowns, and with the deaths of two of Diana’s children. Yet it was also a life studded with success and achievement, with humour and energy, and, perhaps most important, with friends.

Must try and get hold of her memoir, no?

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Prior to my DNA test, I never regarded sex as a gray area. Person discovers they are intersex at 32:

The translocation of an SRY gene meant that some development of male sex organs had occurred. The primary implications for me were that I had external genitalia matching a stereotypical male, but my internal functioning was more blurred, including irregular hormone production and likely infertility.

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Iron age men left home to join wives’ families, DNA study suggests. Study highlights role of women in Celtic Britain and challenges assumptions most societies were patrilocal. You know, I'm pretty sure I've read about other societies which were matrilineal/matrilocal? With additional 'husbands having to mind their manners as well as bringing home the bacon'?

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This seems resonant with the above: Engaging with African feminist interpretations of the maternal:

In African feminist literary works, the mother as a metaphor has been used to elevate and celebrate women’s roles in society while deconstructing symbolisms that debase women in masculine-ordered discourses. Similarly, Nortje-Meyer describes mothering as an inherently African way of care that also includes non-maternal care provided to a group or community. African feminists are troubled by the theorized association between motherhood and victimhood, theories that African feminist scholar Oyèrónkẹ́ Oyěwùmí argues find their origins in Western epistemes that are based on rigid dichotomies such as the mind/body.

Makes interesting points about the role of older women and traditional rules.

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Also on issues around motherhood, childcare, etc: Of church halls and custard creams or, the strange disappearance of community playgroups. I have a sort of recollection that playgroups were one of the grassroots things that sprang up in ?early 60s associated with the National Housewives' Register. I'm not quite sure you can talk about 'feminism' in the early-mid 60s in the way this piece does, the second wave really only got going really at the end of the 60s: although feminism was there (hai Katharine Whitehorn etc) it was not necessarily articulated as such. This movement seems very distinct from the actual childcare element of the 6 Demands of Women's Liberation in the 70s. I wonder how far this playgroup movement intersected with things like natural childbirth.... And how far this is a very specific corner of a much broader phenomenon.

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Euphemising lady-parts: Helen King explores the euphemistic, floral language used to describe and disguise the clitoris, by men and women alike:

Talking about women’s bodies in terms of flowers can be simple euphemism, and it may seem like a way of valuing the “floral parts” – even of acknowledging their beauty – but there’s a less body-positive reading of this imagery. The fleeting nature of the flower’s blooming suggests not only fragility but also that, like fruit, it needs to be picked or plucked at the right moment.

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I am alas pretty much certainly not going to get to NYC to see this exhibition: Belle da Costa Greene: A Librarian's Legacy. Sigh.

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Okay, I think everybody has seen That Writer Scandal, where somebody who had choice deal with mainstream publisher has tanked their career by sockpuppetting perceived competitors with one-star reviews on GoodReads, etc, and we think, Y O Y, because, already Had It Made as far as debut writers go -

But anyway, a much lesser scandal but one that I find vaguely amusing: Labour councillor quits selection race after concerns over ‘sexy, satanic’ novels:

His novels, which he publishes independently, include a series set in Scotland featuring a psychic priest named Father Andrew Steel who investigates occult-related crimes.

Just out of interest I looked at the sample of the first of these on Amazon, and I wonder if it's the blood, gore, sex and Satanism, or whether his rather less than flattering remarks about Fife in the first few paragraphs had a bearing, though I'm not ruling out the good old trad morality.

There are times when I have been up for a good occult thriller, but I don't think these are entirely my cuppa. The second entry includes young women being eviscerated by Something on the streets of Edinburgh, according to the blurb, and I am, pass. Also observe that we do not think the mantle of the great Scottish writers within the Gothic tradition has fallen upon him. However, he seems to have a dedicated readership.

In the realm of You Could Not Make It Up:

Guilty plea at Old Bailey relates to alleged plot involving publication of videos on ‘eunuch maker’ website:

The defendants are said to have been part of a society in which people willingly undergo extreme body modification. The practice is linked to a subculture in which men become “nullos” – short for genital nullification – by having their penis and testicles removed.

oursin: Illustration from medieval manuscript of the female physician Trotula of Salerno holding up a urine flask (trotula)

The vaginal microbiome: how to look after it – and what to avoid - well, what to avoid would appear to be influencers on TikTok:

Us girls, we have a lot of problems down there and it’s an absolute nightmare,” one influencer says on TikTok, like a seasoned teleshopping host. She reels off a list that includes thrush, bacterial vaginosis (BV) and urinary tract infections – common issues that many women are too shy, insecure or squeamish to talk about. But she has an answer to these woes: vaginal probiotic pills. These are being touted on the social media site as magical new supplements that can improve the health of your vaginal microbiome. But what is the vaginal microbiome? And does it need to be fixed?

Guess what: 'often what works is leaving them to do what they do best: clean and protect themselves naturally'.

Also Realm of Dodgy Influencers, in this case presumably selling dodgy fertility awareness apps, not really recommended as contraception, have perorated about this before: Why are women turning to TikTok for advice about the pill? Because doctors won’t listen to us. I fancy this is a thing that comes round in cycles anyway - Germaine Greer did a massive riff on it in Sex and Destony (1984), though as I recall she was suggesting that men should be doing withdrawal (Proceedings of Vaguely Recalled Newspaper Articles).

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What women want when they pay for sex: ‘Just kindness’: 'the needs that brought women to Mitch Larsson’s door (or his DMs) were rarely just sexual. Moon says the thing most of his clients wanted was “just kindness”.' Looking at what they were paying, if it was just about getting off, they could presumably manage that much more cheaply, even the most high quality vibrator does not, presumably, cost anything like he charged.

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Surely this is Streisand Effect in play yet again: Two academics say a publisher has permanently withdrawn a chapter of a book they edited on sexual misconduct in universities, with doubts about the future of the entire collection, after a prominent Portuguese sociologist alleged it identified him in relation to claims of harassment.

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No place at the table: Indian women, food, and eating. I suspect quite a bit of this gendered behaviour around food is not culture-specific, though there are clearly particular inflections. But the whole thing about repetitive thankless task that only ever gets criticised (even if things aren't actually thrown) resonates.

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Exclusion of women from the scientific narrative: Her work paved the way for blockbuster obesity drugs. Now, she’s fighting for recognition (I thought I had another one or two of these, can't find them).

oursin: My photograph of Praire Buoy sculpture, Meadowbrook Park, Urbana, overwritten with Urgent, Phallic Look (urgent phallic)

Inside the Secretive World of Penile Enlargement: How a doctor’s two-decade quest to grow the penis is leaving some men desperate and disfigured. What's it all about, I wonder, since it doesn't seem to be about pleasure, their own, or that of their partners.

Though I remember a TV documentary a good while ago, but I think that was about impotence, just pre-Viagra, in which men were injecting themselves with papaverine and having prolonged painful erections, getting prosthetic inserts, etc.

Was lately at a seminar given by someone who has been looking at the rather sparse history of attempts to establish a medical speciality of andrology, cognate to gynaeology, which never really got off the ground, and wonder whether that leaves a niche for these dubious practices. Or whether it had trouble achieving lift-off because the subject was already associated with rather dodgy small ads for improving MANHOOD...

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A couple of PSC columns in which she doesn't quite say 'terribly poor stuff', but there is a certain subtext:

My wife and I have stopped having sex. Are my fetishes to blame?:

Up until recently, my wife has been perfectly OK with indulging me in my various fetishes.... Now though she no longer seems interested in having sex with me

It’s not your kink that’s causing the problem. Since your wife has been “indulging” you in that for many years, it is far more likely that this shift in her behaviour is due to some other problem or problems.... Some partners who join in fetishistic behaviour simply to please their partner can understandably start to feel resentment if they are not able to experience their preferred vanilla style at least part of the time, so it is possible there may be a need for renegotiations about that.

I can only climax in one position. Why do my lovers try to talk me out of it?
I can only orgasm when I am on top during sex.... when I try to explain this to a potential partner, their ego kicks in and they assure me I will orgasm in the missionary position with them. However, this is never the case for me.

Men who think they will never fail to bring a woman to orgasm during penetration are lacking in the correct knowledge about female physiology and sexual response.... Find a partner who admires the way you take responsibility for your own pleasure and avoid the uneducated.

She seems to have moved on from exhorting women to gently educate their partners!

oursin: My photograph of Praire Buoy sculpture, Meadowbrook Park, Urbana, overwritten with Urgent, Phallic Look (urgent phallic)

How better, I thought, to celebrate the Bard, whose works are so very full of jokes pertaining to the male genitalia, than to post this for the amusement and enlightenment of my dr rdrz?

Experience: I opened the world’s largest penis museum

I love the economy of that headline: the museum is, as far as anyone knows, the largest museum of its kind in the world.

It also contains what are probably the world's largest penises, since it includes those of whales: 'The largest, from a sperm whale, is about 6ft long'.

There is one human specimen: 'from a 95-year-old man who left it to us in his will in 2011', as well as several promised bequests.

In 2011, my son took over and the museum is now in a much larger building in the centre of town. Alongside the collection is information on the cultural history of the penis, displays of memorabilia, such as carvings and drawings of the penis from different places and eras, and so on. It’s a wonderful museum and I’m proud of what my son has done with it. Tourists visit from all over the world, as well as doctors and biologists.
He also appears to have worked on the issue of conservation of specimens:
There are a lot of different ways to preserve a penis and I have tried all of them, so the collection varies between dried, stuffed and mounted penises, and also those floating in alcohol or formaldehyde.

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You know, there were so many women who did not conform to your cliched expectations of women of the nineteenth century/Victorian era over a whole range of social niches, that I wish, one day, some article about one of them would say, yes, it's one more woman to add to the long list of 'Not Like Other VictLadies!', rather than 'she was also everything unexpected: independent, commanding, fearless, unmarried'. (And some of them were the first three and also managed to be married into the bargain!)

We also feel someone, somewhere is being a bit mimsy about that whole 'unmarried' thing in the case of Alice de Rothschild: photographs of 'close female friends'? '“She didn’t seem to feel as though she ought to get married, and she did what she wanted to do.”?? Hmmmmm.

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You know, I seem to recall people diatribing about young women going for walks in the wilder places of the British Isles in what the diatribists considered Improper Dress, but maybe they were just enjoying a little light walking exercise in nature (hello birds! hello sky!) and were not behaving in the Clue? I Don't Need No Cluez! fashion found here: Being male and on your phone are biggest dangers on Scottish mountains, says expert.Data covering seven-year period up to the start of 2019 shows that women accounted for only 10 of 114 fatalities:

She said: “You make generalisations about male and female attributes with regard to risk taking and obviously it doesn’t reflect everybody, but from the many years I’ve spent training people, guys tend to overestimate their ability and give things a go, and don’t think that they need formal skills training, whereas ladies tend to swing way the other way.”
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I'm over here, boggling. Apparently if you see Some Thesp's Todger on-screen, it's actually a stand-in (as you might say): As a makeup and special effects artist, Matthew Mungle has been in this line of work for decades, creating quite an impressive number of prosthetic penises.

Um. Err. Wot.

oursin: My photograph of Praire Buoy sculpture, Meadowbrook Park, Urbana, overwritten with Urgent, Phallic Look (urgent phallic)
Women have a variety of methods for contraception, but only two methods are commonly available to men: condoms and vasectomies. Both methods have their drawbacks.
(And let's just not mention the very PiV-centric model going on here.)

But that wasn't actually the main that struck me about this: Heating Up Testicles With Nanoparticles Can Work as Male Contraception. Here's How.

Because I have a distant recollection of coming across Ye Urban Folklore in the Dayz of My Yoof about men warming up the relevant parts as a preliminary precautionary measure (mind you, there was also the thing about strapping the luminous-dialled watch to them for a dose of radiation for the same purpose). In Hunter Davies' 1965 novel, Here We Go, Round the Mulberry Bush, lads commend to one another taking a hot bath immediately before getting into a leg-over situation, and also the watch thing, with warnings not to leave it too long for fear of permanent infertility.

Plus, of course, with slightly more medical and scientific cred, men who wanted to beget offspring and were having difficulty due to lowish sperm count were told to cast off tight underpants that overheated the organs.

Nanocontraception is based on the idea that nanoparticles – here, about 100 nanometres in diameter, or roughly one-thousandth the width of a piece of paper or of a strand of human hair – can somehow be delivered to the testicles, where they can be warmed. If you could warm up the testicles just a bit, you would have a way to turn sperm production on and off at will because the warmer they get, the less fertile they become. But it's a delicate process because the testicles can be irreversibly destroyed if they become too warm; the tissue dies and can no longer produce sperm, even when the testicles return to their normal temperature.
Experiments have been done on mice, and, I'm sorry, it sounds inordinately complicated and reminiscent of Michael Bentine's Newer Better Mouse-Trap:
[M]agnetic nanoparticles were injected into mice's veins, and then the animals were anesthetized. A magnet was then placed next to their testicles for four hours, drawing the nanoparticles there. This procedure – injection followed by magnetic targeting – was performed daily for one to four days. After the last day of treatment, an electric coil was wrapped around the testicles, through which a current was passed. This induced a magnetic field that heated up the nanorods and, therefore, the testicles. Similar temperature increases – from a baseline of 29 C to between 37 and 42 C – were observed through this method. The more days a mouse had been injected with nanorods, the hotter its testicles became. Hotter testicles led to their atrophy and shrinkage, but they showed gradual recovery both 30 and 60 days after treatment as long as testicle temperatures didn't reach 45 C. Fertility was down seven days after treatment – in some cases, fertility was completely eliminated – but it also showed gradual (though not complete) recovery after 60 days.
That's in mice
[D]etailed studies will be required to establish that nanocontraception is not toxic for men. It is also more difficult to put a man under anesthesia for four hours and wrap an electric coil around his testicles than it is to do the same thing on a mouse. Instead, Sun hopes to be able to deliver the magnetic nanorods orally and find another way to direct them to the testicles. And it is uncertain how many men will be comfortable with shrunken testicles, even if they recover their original size with time.
Given that projected male contraceptives that have sounded a good less of a faff than this have still failed to obtain lift-off to any significant degree, I am really not holding my breath on this one.

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Okay, the article itself is pretty much on the side of It's All More Complicated:
Who Killed the ‘Female Pleasure Button’? In 1998, a North Carolina doctor accidentally discovered a device that could make women cum at the drop of a hat. Two decades later, we've got nothing to show for it. This is the long, strange story of the Orgasmatron.

(Me, I couldn't help thinking that the answer to why this did not take off in a big way was the same as the answer to the question of why there were by no means the numbers of women interested in male sexbots as there were men interested in female sexbots. There is a much simpler, more portable/less invasive solution.)

The Orgasmatron worked by stimulating nerves “from the pelvis that enter the spinal highway near the tailbone,” which “shoots pleasure signals straight up to the part of the brain that processes information coming from the genitalia.”
It involved a implant inserted at the base of the spinal cord, which could be activated by remote control.

But quite apart from the problem of scurrying up research funding in this, ahem, sensitive area, the inventor has had problems in finding volunteers:

Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute and the host of the Sex and Psychology podcast, says he isn’t surprised that volunteers were hard to come by. “While the preliminary data looked promising, it’s expensive and invasive, and there’s still a lot we don’t know about long-term effects and potential risks,” he tells me. Also, while the device may be of “great value” for those with disabilities or “significant and persistent difficulty orgasming,” it doesn’t address any of the interpersonal, cultural or environmental factors that prevent climax (communication issues, shame and sexual anxiety are particular culprits). “The concern is that biomedical devices that facilitate orgasm could potentially just become another Band-Aid solution,” Lehmiller explains.
We note also good comments from Dr Petra Boynton on whom be praise.:
["]The Orgasmatron is very much part of an early 2000s view of ‘perfect sex’ that, in some ways, feels old fashioned now.” This idea of “perfect sex” — often buoyed by free, mainstream, heterosexual porn — centers on the cis male-esque climax, and the widely-held view that sex ends — and is “good” — when one or both parties have cum.
We are not entirely surprised, my dearios, when another sex therapist suggests that men would like this as it would give them the gratification of getting their partner off without any fuss and bother.

(Wot, me, cynical?)

Hark to the biohacker's dreams (I think I read this in sf in the 70s, didn't I???)

He says that with the right technological upgrade, the Orgasmatron could even facilitate “massive multiplayer orgies,” where users could feel the pleasure that other users were feeling via their spinal implants. “You could have what your partner’s feeling added to you and then send it back to them,” he explains. “It would be amazing to have a bunch of people plugged in and feeling what multiple people are feeling at once. It’s got a lot of weird and awesome potential.”
While the valid point is made that “There’s still a lot of stigma, bias and lack of resourcing in health care for female sexuality”, reservations are also in play concerning this mechanistic approach as the way forward.

As I recall, didn't the original Orgasmatron in the movie obviate the need for actual human sexual contact...?

Friday Five

Nov. 5th, 2021 06:08 pm
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Reminders of the longer history, a little behindhand of Black History Month:

The story of a man who became one of Britain's first black gardeners is being marked with a rose named in his honour.

I’m a fourth-generation black British man. Yet still I’m made to feel I don’t belong. My great-grandparents came here in the 1800s. Too few people realise the UK’s black history began long before the Windrush.

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I was lately thinking that Did Those Feet in Ancient Time/Walk Upon England's Mountains Green, there are those in these present days would doubtless consider The Holy Lamb of God an unwanted immigrant... possibly a terrorist. William Blake cottage at risk of being lost, says Historic England. Home where he wrote Jerusalem, in Felpham, West Sussex, one of 130 places on 2021 at-risk register.

We do rather wonder if those who go WO WO about Our National Heritage are really there for those parts of it that are Mad Radical William (was it Felpham where he and his wife played Adam and Eve in the garden?) or early female horticulturalists who advocated 'wild gardening' and died penniless.

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Joy. A piece on historical romance novels by somebody who not only reads them, but reads what's currently being written: 'the genre has come quite far since the derogatory label “bodice ripper” was coined. Authors and the stories they tell are much more diverse'.

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I'm pretty sure I've mentioned before that whole 70s 2nd-wave feminism, let's all sit around and look at our cervixes thing, and the women's health movement, etc: this goes some way towards recovering it ‘I Looked at my vagina and it was beautiful’: Feminists reclaim the speculum though I have a notion more research is being done in this area.

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A bit late for World Menopause Day, but ugh: New Study shows Vaginal Laser Therapy Ineffective for Menopause Symptoms: Vaginal rejuvenation is a sham.:

We have a very long history in gynecology of under tested medications and therapies gaming the system in some way or another with women paying the price. Diethylstilbestrol (DES, birth defects and cancer), the Dalkon Shield (pelvic infections and death), and some of the vaginal mesh surgeries (chronic pain) for starters, so we need to be very cautious with new interventions. And yet despite the absence of quality data on the effectiveness and safety of laser therapies for vaginal menopause symptoms, many doctors are promoting the laser as if it is the fountain of youth for the vagina. Literally. I mean what else does “vaginal rejuvenation” imply? And it is not just gynecologists offering these unapproved, untested vaginal laser therapies. Dermatologists, urologists, and even emergency medicine doctors (with have concierge medical practices on the side or as their primary source of income) offer this treatment.

This is perhaps less surprising, if still shocking, when this is considered: Ignorance about the basic biology of vulvas is still shockingly high – yet there are huge health benefits, physical and emotional, to be won with better understanding. Points out that medical knowledge/understanding is not all that, quite apart from the lacunae in general sex education.

Have we come really so very far, in spite of some changing attitudes, from the Lost Girls in the Unmarked Graves in Highgate Cemetery?

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A brief introduction to 5 Black Heroes of the Abolition Movement in Britain

London’s Tube map has been powerfully recreated to honour hundreds of people who helped shape black history in Britain:

The 272 station names have been replaced by notable black figures from pre-Tudor times to the present day. They include the first black woman to serve in the Royal Navy, who disguised herself as a man called William Brown. Other people featured are Victorian circus owner Pablo Fanque, who inspired the Beatles song Being for the Benefit of Mr Kite!, and composer and poet Cecile Nobrega, who led a 15-year campaign to establish England’s first permanent public monument to black women in Stockwell. The map was produced by Transport for London in partnership with Black Cultural Archives, a cultural centre in Brixton, south London. The names of Tube lines have also been changed to link them by common themes.
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Vagrancy Acts:

Engineering an arrest to earn respite from weather or ill-health, was not an uncommon action amongst the men (and women) whose lives I have been reconstructing following their prosecution for vagrancy in Leicestershire between the 1880s and 1910s.... The probable jail term that followed would have offered respite and been preferable to the gruelling conditions of the workhouse.

Historians of the late nineteenth century have focused, to a large extent, on the ways that the social phenomena of vagrancy cast light on deeper structural processes: migratory labour, economic development, state regulatory formation, urbanisation, crime and responses to poverty. These perspectives are chiefly concerned with numbers and processes, rather than understanding the person who was labelled as a vagrant and criminalised on account of their social condition. I have been fortunate to collaborate with Adrian Jackson and Cardboard Citizens Theatre Company over a number of years, as we have found ways to share the compelling and personal stories of those who experienced vagrancy. This resulted in The Vagrants Acts, a series of experimental online performances in 2020 during lockdown and a forthcoming radio play.

Newspapers reported on vagrant lives largely out of concern for their criminality. The voice of vagrants may be partial and mediated, but personalities emerge as do their strategies for survival: employing humour to undermine authority; utilising defences intended to elicit a favourable court response; or even, confronting and challenging the prejudices they encountered.

oursin: My photograph of Praire Buoy sculpture, Meadowbrook Park, Urbana, overwritten with Urgent, Phallic Look (urgent phallic)

I read this yesterday (it's actually in the print edition today) I stuck my foot out to trip her – I just wanted her to have a tumble so that we could laugh about it. Then I heard her screaming, is it, or am I being a prejudiced feminist harridan, always blokes who think this sort of 'prank' is going to be funny, even well after they have passed the age of six?

And I discover that the unfortunate victim of this has written her side of the story:

I did wonder, though, would a female friend kick me over ‘for a laugh’? I don’t think so; that kind of physical horseplay isn’t what women are generally taught to do in social situations. This is a point several of my friends and family have made too.
and although the bloke has done various things to demonstrate apology (some of them a bit weird, honestly)
I live with my fiancé and my sister, who cared for me every day that I was back home. I was completely immobilised so they had to do everything: help me wash using flannels and a bucket of water in bed, lift me onto a commode in the living room and carry another bucket of whatever I produced up to the bathroom. Between them, they cooked every meal and brought every glass of water I consumed for three months. They entertained me with crosswords and puppet shows. And they held me when I cried with pain and frustration, and woke up in the night to be with me when I vomited from the pain, or the effects of the morphine I was taking.
while she seems to be trying to take care of bloke's feelings and preserve their friendship because that's just the way he is???

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His girlfriend compared him favourably with an ex, saying he is 'the perfect size' and 'I am the best sexual partner she has had' and sex with Very Well Endowed Ex was actually painful. But he is more concerned about dick-sizing competitiveness? and wonders should he get surgery? (PSC and a deviation into sense in the reply.)

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The Repository for Germinal Choice was supposed to produce super-kids from the sperm of white high achievers. Yes, it was racist and it was horribly eugenicist, but this rather plays down the positively early-modern sexist concepts of the role of the sperm embedded in the entire concept, no? What about the mothers, eh? That precious bodily fluid doesn't actually contain teeny homunculi! Okay, it goes with all the other pernicious ideas embedded in it, but possibly at such a basic level that it's practically inaudible?

oursin: My photograph of Praire Buoy sculpture, Meadowbrook Park, Urbana, overwritten with Urgent, Phallic Look (urgent phallic)

Big vagina energy: the return of the sheela na gig -

Not that they'd ever gone away, possibly the word there should be recuperation? recovery? re-evaluation? re-interpretation?

Some say the explicit medieval carvings were fertility symbols; others that the figures were meant to ward off evil. Now a group of Irish feminists are bringing them back – as a reminder of women’s struggles. Carved into stone, these women squat, naked, sometimes cackling, pulling open their enlarged labia: it’s no wonder Victorian clergymen attempted to destroy or hide the glorious, mysterious figures known as sheela na gigs. The carvings are found on medieval churches, castles and even gateposts in Ireland, the UK and much of mainland Europe. They seem to have their origins in the 11th century; the oldest discovered in the British Isles so far dates back to the 12th century, the youngest to the 16th. Yet their beginnings are an enigma.
Given that dating, one might be a little sceptical at the theories that they represent 'a pre-Christian folk goddess and her exaggerated vulva a sign of life-giving powers and fertility'?

Okay, as someone who has worked with collections of various kinds I am just a leeetle sceptical of stories like this (cites please!):

She became fascinated by sheelas in the 1980s after reading about a US academic who had been denied access to see some that were “hidden away” in the National Museum of Ireland in Dublin.
That could be conservation issues - it could be 'ooops, they're not where we thought they were' - it could be 'out to exhibition somewhere' - 'being photographed for someone's book' - we note that it was the 1980s, not the 1890s....

(I mean, that has urban myths about secret collections all over it.)

But I was a bit stunned when, having associated the huge vulvas with notions of successful survived childbirth, this conclusion is drawn:

One thing that most of these figures have in common is that the upper parts of their bodies belong to elderly women. This fascinated Freitag. Why were these figures of fertility also so reminiscent of mortality? “The answer is, of course, because life and death go hand in glove,” she says.
Or, you know, survival into crone-hood? (what happened to the whole crone-hood thing of the 70s...?)

oursin: Photograph of Stella Gibbons, overwritten IM IN UR WOODSHED SEEING SOMETHIN NASTY (woodshed)

Vulva masks and labia serums: the marketing of women’s genital shame.

WOT.

Back when I was a young thing, the way Evil Capitalism was capitalising on female fears about the noxious nature of their specifically female parts, was vaginal deodorants. I had actually, silly me, thought that these had gone the way of the dodo, but no, they are still very much A Thing, though I see the emphasis on their kindness to sensitive skin and hypoallergenic qualities and so on. While this may avoid the adverse effects noted back in the day, these are still, well, completely unnecessary.

As are the beauty masks, etc, being touted as described in that article.

I would have liked to have linked to this article: The Insidious Reasons Doctors Are Botching Labiaplasties but it wants me to log in, claiming that I already have a log-in ????. Anyway, this sub-head pretty much tells one all one needs to know: 'Many doctors performing labiaplasties were never taught vulvar anatomy - leaving some patients scarred and unable to feel sexual pleasure'. Not really surprised.

Sigh.

oursin: My photograph of Praire Buoy sculpture, Meadowbrook Park, Urbana, overwritten with Urgent, Phallic Look (urgent phallic)

Today's entry in the weekly column in Guardian Weekend on 'My Life in Sex' isfrom a man who finds that being very well-endowed is by no means all it's cracked up to be when it comes to actually having enjoyable sex with a partner.

Plausible.

But the Below the Line is full of weak jokes and blokes saying they wish they had that problem, and the impression one gets rather confirms the belief that it is all about intra-male competition and display, though why should that be so (especially since it is not a universal 'throughout the whole of history' phenomenon, cf the Ancient Greeks)?

And one wonders how much even the average male organ measures up to the average internal clitoral body - though maybe it's just massively denser with nerve endings? - we observe that Helen O'Connell, who did that work - and credits the influence of the US feminist self-help health movement for providing an important stimulus - seems an all-round good egg who was dubious about those synthetic mesh implants when everyone else was doing them.

oursin: Brush the Wandering Hedgehog by the fire (Default)

Madhumala Chattopadhyay, the woman who made the Sentinelese put their arrows down: (and did not try to evangelise them):

Dr Madhumala Chattopadhyay, then a researcher (initially a fellow and subsequently research associate) with the Anthropological Survey of India... went on to spend six years researching the various primitive tribes of the Andaman and Nicobar Islands. Madhumala is also the first woman to be accepted by another Andaman tribe, the Jarawas, with whom she established a friendly relationship, especially the women folk. Unfortunately, her accomplishments remain forgotten. Madhumala now works in the mid-level bureaucracy of a central government ministry in Delhi handling routine government files, an unseemly situation for a woman who built our first bridge to an unknown world. Madhumala does not wear her success on her sleeve, and is humble to the point of being reticent. Her book Tribes of Car Nicobar and journal papers remain standard reference texts in universities worldwide
....
Given her seminal work, universities including University of Cornell and University of California, Berkley offered Madhumala research positions. However, her responsibilities towards her two younger siblings and aging mother kept her from taking up these assignments. She took up a regular job with the ministry of social justice and empowerment, where she is now employed as a senior research officer.

***

I daresay this needs restating, but Y, O Y, do women in SFF keep on needing to be rediscovered at regular intervals? How soon they forget, I murmur, looking at the various studies and anthologies compiled over the period of decades I have been interested in the field that adorn my shelves: The secret history of science fiction's women writers: The Future is Female! (certainly none of those names are new to me, even if perhaps fresh examples of their work are included).

***

And possibly apposite: The Lady Hero’s Journey:

A woman tries to set out on The Hero’s Journey only to find that Joseph Campbell didn’t believe that women take The Hero’s Journey. She must instead embark on The Lady Hero’s Journey.

***

And on female erasure in history, the Timeline of Historical Slang for the Vagina is woefully, woefully lacking in terms for the clitoris - nothing before c. 1890. Sigh.

oursin: Photograph of Stella Gibbons, overwritten IM IN UR WOODSHED SEEING SOMETHIN NASTY (woodshed)

Because I'm more likely to put it down to male-gazey prurience. Do we need to know the identity of the woman who posed for Courbet's L'Origine du Monde?
Experts say they are 99% sure model who posed for L’Origine du monde was ballet dancer Constance Queniaux.

Jonathan Jones, who has a certain amount of form for ponceyness, higher codswallop and general obnoxiousness, is yay pissed, because he has just identified the model as another well-known artists' model of the period in a book he's just finished: Who posed for the 'Mona Lisa of vaginas'? (As several commentators point out Below The Line, Mr Jones does not appear to understand the distinction between a vagina and a vulva...).

But either way - and it might not be either of these two ladies, one of whom 'became a highly respectable lady of leisure known for her philanthropy' - so what? and would whoever it was really appreciate speculation about their identity over 150 years after the painting was completed?

oursin: My photograph of Praire Buoy sculpture, Meadowbrook Park, Urbana, overwritten with Urgent, Phallic Look (urgent phallic)

Reading this account of the life and times of an obsessive biohacker, we do rather wonder, what is the point, if you're doing/not doing so many things in order to extend your life, when do you have time to, ahem, live?

He has completely cut out sugar, pornography, masturbation, all menial jobs, alcohol, processed food, news and social media from his life. .... There aren’t many women in Faguet’s life, and he has no interest in a relationship. “I do have some women I date from time to time. This is a longer conversation, but I just want to spend my time with people I enjoy who energise me. And if you don’t want to engage in that sort of thing [relationships] and you still want to have sex, which is what humans want, then it’s a question of just how do you fix that without spending too much time on it?” How do you do that, I ask. Faguet says he prefers to “hire sugar-baby-models for sex”, stressing that they are “not prostitutes. Many wealthy people keep mistresses and pay for their expenses or rent their apartment. These are girls who have $20k Hublot watches and vacation in Monaco.” He’s decided against having children, because they are “not a good ROI” (return on investment).

Can he understand how emotionally cut off he might seem to other people? “Look. I think ultimately it’s what your objectives are in life and how it advances your objectives. And children – there’s not that much time to do everything.” (This despite the fact that Faguet is going to live for ever.)

We are not entirely amazed to discover that 'Biohackery is a large, varied but predominantly male global community': because, honestly, speaking as somebody born biologically female, I can think of a lot of tweaks one would want to make to the basic design before one started in on all this kind of thing, no?

And another kind of extension which, is it really worth it? part of the same themed edition of Guardian Weekend: More and more men are opting for surgical penis enlargement. Is it a confidence boost, or a con? It is an operation not without risks - including subsequent erecticle dysfunction - and it doesn't look as though it is anything these men's partners are requiring.

oursin: hedgehog wearing a yellow flower (Hedgehog with flower)

Well, in this instance it was actually Twitter, but it was almost laugh-out-loud appropriate coincidence.

The first one was apropos of the Museum of the Vagina - the press page is here - and we discover that, perhaps appropriately, it is at present a potential rather than an actual space.

(And, as someone who has recently been billed as 'Gender and sexology expert', we are just a little miffed that this was the first we had heard of it, she says, stroking the peeve curled up in her lap.)

And immediately following was a retweet of this extremely, ahem, resonant, painting by Georgia O'Keeffe.

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